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    isaleem is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Short and sweet, is a f buddy a game changer?

    Alright guys!

    To cut this story as short as possible.

    This girl and I have been hanging out for a bit.
    Met through a Uni club. Plenty of Kino no K-close.

    Anyway, last night I organised a social for us lot, but she was already going out to another houseparty.

    Whilst I am at the bar, in my mistake I left my mobile on the table, to which another girl whom I am friends with decides to text her saying "I am going to make love to you until you're screaming" her reply being "Friend of yours stolen your phone? ". At this point Im pretty annoyed but decide to play along for a bit (bad move I think ahaha) and reply with "Nope" with her replying "Sorry I already have a fark buddy!"

    Now there is little contact usually, however I have sent her message earlier today saying that I am never organizing a social again.

    So yeah, major fark up? or is all not lost?

    Meant to be meeting up today (but Im doubtful of that happening) and then again tomorrow for a pub crawl.

    Peace!

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    blazeboy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Short and sweet, is a fuck buddy a game changer?

    When she asked you in your phone was stolen, I think the better moved would have been to say, yeah, and something funny, like ... Why on earth would I write something so silly like this? ... So what you wrote with 'nope' was not ideal.

    I do think it's recoverable since it seems like there is interest, kino, etc.

    I would play it cool. Interact with as if nothing happened. Don't even bring up the text... just be that cool badass direct guy. She sees you are cool again, she'll probably think... this is a confident direct dude.. maybe i should re-think this fark buddy situation...
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    isaleem is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Short and sweet, is a fuck buddy a game changer?

    Hmm, i forgot to add, that I eventually replied with "haha sorry that I was ####" where there was no reply.

    I do feel like I should try and contact her again as she is leaving soon for a few months etc, but I usually never attempt contact when the previous attempt hadn't received a reply.


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