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    Default Re: Rate My night! Friend-zoned?

    I didnt completely blow my chances right? Like i am not always texting this girl, i see her around and am friendly to her. Its 2am right now and i cant stop thinking about this and that i should have made a move.

    Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: Rate My night! Friend-zoned?

    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    I didnt completely blow my chances right? Like i am not always texting this girl, i see her around and am friendly to her. Its 2am right now and i cant stop thinking about this and that i should have made a move.

    Any suggestions?
    Stop complaining about making a move and go farkin make one! It sounds like you are on the verge of the friend zone, if not there already. From what it sounds like, she wanted you to do something, and you didn't. I know because I've been in almost the EXACT situation and been friend zoned because I wondered (I was actually laying in a girls bed once with her, didn't make a move, then got friendzoned. Kicked myself for weeks). This tells her you're not a man, you're nervous and insecure, and not the kind of guy she wants to be with. Unless you pull major damage control like asking her to hang out and getting physical (escalating some kino), you're chances are blown.

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    Default Re: Rate My night! Friend-zoned?

    Quote Originally Posted by scguitar View Post
    Stop complaining about making a move and go farkin make one! It sounds like you are on the verge of the friend zone, if not there already. From what it sounds like, she wanted you to do something, and you didn't. I know because I've been in almost the EXACT situation and been friend zoned because I wondered (I was actually laying in a girls bed once with her, didn't make a move, then got friendzoned. Kicked myself for weeks). This tells her you're not a man, you're nervous and insecure, and not the kind of guy she wants to be with. Unless you pull major damage control like asking her to hang out and getting physical (escalating some kino), you're chances are blown.
    So what can i do!? What would you do? Like where would you hang out and how would you escalate kino?

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    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    So what can i do!? What would you do? Like where would you hang out and how would you escalate kino?
    Well, if this is still salvageable, I would say hang out like where ever you did last time. I think you said you went to some party and she was sitting next to you? then you went back to her room or something. Do that same plan (if you can't do a party, go to a club. Girls love to go clubbing).

    So if you want to escalate kino, touch her shoulder a little when talking, then back off. Make is smooth and natural, like something she wouldn't even notice. When talking, lightly brush the back of your hand against hers to see how she reacts. Again, make this seem natural, almost like you're hand is accidentally touching hers, and just escalate from there if she reacts positively. The worst she can do is pull her hand away. Things like putting your hands on her waist or your thigh between her thighs, be creative. The key is to make it natural and not awkward. One thing I like is ask her any general question, like what her favorite food is, and when she answers, pretend you didn't hear, and move a little closer, then repeat until you're like cheek to cheek. It's funny and gets you close

    One you get alone, and you talk for a little, invite her to sit with you. Then from this point, I recommend the David D kiss test. Tell her she has nice hair, then lightly touch it with your fingers. If she reacts positively, keep this up and move closer. If she doesn't react negatively, go in for the kiss.

    If you notice she gets uncomfortable at any point, just back away, take it slow, and build more rapport. I hope I explained all this well since it's something better demonstrated than typed down. If you want other kino escalation tips, look up stealth attraction by gambler on youtube

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    Default Re: Rate My night! Friend-zoned?

    Quote Originally Posted by scguitar View Post
    Well, if this is still salvageable, I would say hang out like where ever you did last time. I think you said you went to some party and she was sitting next to you? then you went back to her room or something. Do that same plan (if you can't do a party, go to a club. Girls love to go clubbing).

    So if you want to escalate kino, touch her shoulder a little when talking, then back off. Make is smooth and natural, like something she wouldn't even notice. When talking, lightly brush the back of your hand against hers to see how she reacts. Again, make this seem natural, almost like you're hand is accidentally touching hers, and just escalate from there if she reacts positively. The worst she can do is pull her hand away. Things like putting your hands on her waist or your thigh between her thighs, be creative. The key is to make it natural and not awkward. One thing I like is ask her any general question, like what her favorite food is, and when she answers, pretend you didn't hear, and move a little closer, then repeat until you're like cheek to cheek. It's funny and gets you close

    One you get alone, and you talk for a little, invite her to sit with you. Then from this point, I recommend the David D kiss test. Tell her she has nice hair, then lightly touch it with your fingers. If she reacts positively, keep this up and move closer. If she doesn't react negatively, go in for the kiss.

    If you notice she gets uncomfortable at any point, just back away, take it slow, and build more rapport. I hope I explained all this well since it's something better demonstrated than typed down. If you want other kino escalation tips, look up stealth attraction by gambler on youtube
    Thanks! And yeah thats what I planned on doing, go out on the weekend and then text her to meet up. But....AHHH I am so dumb haha that was my shot, she texted me to come get her, everything was perfect.

    But, does it make a difference that I was also maybe too drunk to do anything? Like sitting on her couch i was almost nodding off.

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    Default Re: Rate My night! Friend-zoned?

    The tired and drunk is a good excuse for skipping out on sex, but not a k-close


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