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    Lex S is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Girl going cold/re-establishing contact

    This is in reference to this thread: http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...-am-nyc-2.html

    Long story short, hooked up with a girl from Montreal, she was planning to visit around New Years. Plans fell through, doesn't know when she'll be back. I'm wondering if I should just leave this one alone, because it's been almost 5 months since I saw her, and it's not easy for her to get to NYC with her job and school.

    But on the other hand, she's probably the hottest girl I've ever banged, and the fact that she still stayed in contact was a good sign. So during December I spoke to her twice - Once was to wish her a happy birthday (She was studying for finals instead of going out, so I did some light negging), and the other was to ask when she'd be in NYC. When she said she wasn't going I teased her, but I think I DLV'ed and sounded legitimately desperate and disappointed.

    I decided to leave the ball in her court and have her get in touch next - So far she hasn't. She also used to like or comment on almost everything I posted on Facebook, but she hasn't in a while (Even though she's on a lot). She said she might visit in February, so I'm wondering if she'll get in touch about that, since I'm one of the only people she actually knows in the city.

    So I'm wondering this - Is it best to let her get in touch, or should I pop in when I've got my game on and send her an IM? If I did indeed DLV during our last conversation, what's the best way to rebound?

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    Default Re: Girl going cold/re-establishing contact

    this long distance type of game is more difficult. the key is to keep the texting or FB messaging going... and consistent... funny, and with sexual innuendos, esp since you already banged her! so i think you amp that up... message her every now and then, and eventually bring up the nyc visit... casually... but you gotta get that going again
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    Default Re: Girl going cold/re-establishing contact

    OMG U JUST DESCRIBED THIS GIRL AND HER TRIP AND HER FUTURE TRIP THAT SHE TOLD YOU ABOUT. Is her name natalia by any chance?
    DUDE she is a player! trust me! she fucks and plays games.

    Is her name natalia????????? and she doesnt have a job, she begging me for one. shes a liar i tell you! a liar!
    Life is too short. Go ahead. Live it up. And enjoy the ride before its over(;

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    Default Re: Girl going cold/re-establishing contact

    Blazeboy - Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. We had a sort of an inside joke about food that I'll be having tomorrow. I figure I can always break the ice by saying I went to _________ and get the ball rolling. Maybe also introduce some jealousy? I'm going in the morning, maybe I can casually say I stayed over a friend's place and then we went together in the morning. Won't say male or female, just lots of "they's" and "them's".


    Haszan - Hah hah, that's not her name.

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    Default Re: Girl going cold/re-establishing contact

    okay cool (;

    lmao lookin out for u haha
    Life is too short. Go ahead. Live it up. And enjoy the ride before its over(;

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    Default Re: Girl going cold/re-establishing contact

    Quote Originally Posted by haszan1172 View Post
    okay cool (;

    lmao lookin out for u haha
    Hah hah, thanks. You had me worried for a second, though.


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