This is in reference to this thread: http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...-am-nyc-2.html
Long story short, hooked up with a girl from Montreal, she was planning to visit around New Years. Plans fell through, doesn't know when she'll be back. I'm wondering if I should just leave this one alone, because it's been almost 5 months since I saw her, and it's not easy for her to get to NYC with her job and school.
But on the other hand, she's probably the hottest girl I've ever banged, and the fact that she still stayed in contact was a good sign. So during December I spoke to her twice - Once was to wish her a happy birthday (She was studying for finals instead of going out, so I did some light negging), and the other was to ask when she'd be in NYC. When she said she wasn't going I teased her, but I think I DLV'ed and sounded legitimately desperate and disappointed.
I decided to leave the ball in her court and have her get in touch next - So far she hasn't. She also used to like or comment on almost everything I posted on Facebook, but she hasn't in a while (Even though she's on a lot). She said she might visit in February, so I'm wondering if she'll get in touch about that, since I'm one of the only people she actually knows in the city.
So I'm wondering this - Is it best to let her get in touch, or should I pop in when I've got my game on and send her an IM? If I did indeed DLV during our last conversation, what's the best way to rebound?