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Thread: How to deal with this flake attempt?

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    Default How to deal with this flake attempt?

    Have a hot receptionist in one of the buildings where i work, ran some dhv routines on her last week did the cube test worked really well but her boss came in before i could close, so the next time i saw her about a week later came in talked about music for a bit got interrupted again so about two hours later as im leaving

    me: what do you have planned this weekend
    her: nothing really
    me: me and some friends are goin to check out this new bar we heard about this weekend you should tag along
    her: im only 20 so i cant go to bars
    me: ah ya then ill just take you on a date then
    her: alright cool
    me: how should we get in contact
    we exchange numbers and are interrupted again

    later that day i texted
    I have to hit the bars with my friends tonight but i have nothing planned for tomorrow

    she texts back this morning
    i guess it depends on what you wanted to do. My grandpa is really sick and im taking care of him so i dont know what id have time for this weekend :/

    this chick is pretty cool but my usual method for flakes is deleting the number but ill obviously see her again was thinking of saying something like

    Ya i was actually going to call you and try and reschedule got a little crazy last night was my room mates birthday, i hope your grandpa is alright though thats cool that you take care of him, i hope you dont mind me flaking

    figure this turns it around since she didnt actually outright flake yet

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    Default Re: How to deal with this flake attempt?

    I don't even know if id call it flaking. Sounds genuine, I have to deal with elderly grandparents at times, it happens. It sounds like she is interested and things just didn't work out. All I know is a chick that takes care of her grandpa sounds pretty classy and a good catch. I would just play it cool like its no big deal and make plans last minute with her for after work or something so that way it doesn't seem like you have been just sitting around waiting to ask her out. Instead the idea just popped into your head and you ask her casually in person.

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    Default Re: How to deal with this flake attempt?

    I don't see why you can't just have lunch or dinner together, alot can happen in 30-60minutes

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    Default Re: How to deal with this flake attempt?

    Ya thats a better idea texted her and setup lunch will be good to not be constantly interrupted should be able to get somethin goin

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    Default Re: How to deal with this flake attempt?

    btw if its during work hours go to a place where your colleagues don't go, just ask them where they frequent and don't go there (y)


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