Hi everyone, I am new here and love this site; lot's of good advice etc so I thought I'd see if you could help me before I go crazy!?.......
I am not used to dating or picking up girls as have been in a 10 year relationship until a year ago, but now want to get into it again.
I have seen a really hot looking girl in my local cafe but am finding it impossible to get to talk to her never mind find anything out about her or anything. You see, she works behind the counter in this coffee place and doesn't do any customer facing work except occasionally clean a table or 2.
I like this cafe a lot and want to keep using it so don't want to mess up anything.

I was thinking that as it's valentines day coming up soon, I'd send her something small with a short cryptic poem so she couldn't be sure who it was from until she or one of the others starts asking. I know this could come across as a little creepy if I'm not careful or she's having a bad day, but I though I could let the boss know before hand so he could reassure her it's ok if she was worried or anything....... I do get to chat to the boss daily as he does the serving on the counter.

What do you guys think? I can't stand not being able to do anything and it's getting real frustrating. I don't want to screw it up so I can't use this place again if it all doesn't work in my favour!.

Please help, Simon.