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Thread: She Texted, I texted, I called ... and she didn't answer!

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    Question She Texted, I texted, I called ... and she didn't answer!

    Hi All,

    I need an assistance from someone who's expert in the game! I am 38 years old professional male. I have met one lady that's 33 years old online and we had a great conversations. In fact, I was the one who's qualifying her to go to the next level "so, I was following the PUA techniques". Then I've sent her my number.

    The next day, she sent me a message ... saying:
    She sent: Hi SSS it's YYY , how r u? (Jan.24 8:32pm)

    I replied: Hey YYY, I am glade to hear from u ... h r u? (Jan.24 9:01pm)

    She sent: I am doing good. Thx! So u r new to this city like me? (Jan.24 9:24pm)

    > At this point I called her, and she didn't answer. Then she sent me a message:

    She sent: Hey I am out now and can't talk. We can tom. Sorry (Jan. 24 9:30pm)

    My mistake is that I didn't message her back, and the next morning (Jan25) I've sent her an email (I felt going back to the dating site would be my safe side). Stating that I didn't msg her since I wanted to give her a privacy!

    >She didn't reply back nor called nor msged!

    >So, I waited until 10 pm that night (Jan 25) and I've sent her 1st an empty txt msg ... and after 10 more minutes, I've sent here the following message:

    *Blank text* that's weird, didn't know i text ed you ... my phone seems too eager to hear your voice

    >and she didn't reply back either! and now it's Jan 26 8 pm!

    I am thinking to let go at this point. But for future references, how can a person solve such a behavior?

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    Default Re: She Texted, I texted, I called ... and she didn't answer!

    You came across as WAY too needy. If she's texting you, why are you trying to call her. If she says to text her tomorrow, why are you emailing her. Read the texting guides on here to help out with the content of the texts and rules about timing, etc.

    Also, don't send her multiple communications without her responding in between. Sending an email and 2 texts without her responding comes across as needy.

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    Default Re: She Texted, I texted, I called ... and she didn't answer!

    I truly felt that this was my mistake! I should have left things at that point.

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    Default Re: She Texted, I texted, I called ... and she didn't answer!

    Quote Originally Posted by nzagha View Post
    I truly felt that this was my mistake! I should have left things at that point.
    You should have never called her.

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    Default Re: She Texted, I texted, I called ... and she didn't answer!

    And at this point of the game ... not communicating is the best thing, right? unless she comes back! otherwise we can almost always assume that this is a lost chance (as per your experience).
    My goodness, I am always good at this part ... but, this one was exceptionally cute ... lol.

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    Default Re: She Texted, I texted, I called ... and she didn't answer!

    Quote Originally Posted by nzagha View Post
    And at this point of the game ... not communicating is the best thing, right? unless she comes back! otherwise we can almost always assume that this is a lost chance (as per your experience).
    My goodness, I am always good at this part ... but, this one was exceptionally cute ... lol.
    Yep, do not communicate with her at this point. If she doesn't send you a message, you can try again in like 5-7 days. I'd even make fun of yourself a bit for being so needy because she's so cute (a little self-deprecating humor can go a long way).

    Otherwise, this is one you should probably chalk up to a learning experience.

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    Default Re: She Texted, I texted, I called ... and she didn't answer!

    A freeze out would be the only way to salvage this. I agree with the Duke 100% you seemed needy :\

    You should have really just kept the texting convo going.
    .-* WWWEEE *-.

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    Default Re: She Texted, I texted, I called ... and she didn't answer!

    lol .. I deleted her number & text msgs from my cell phone. So, that I will not contact her at all ... (In fact, I have saved it on my computer, just in case of a dry spell ).

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    Default Re: She Texted, I texted, I called ... and she didn't answer!

    You guys are great players! ... and I am still learning the game

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    Default Re: She Texted, I texted, I called ... and she didn't answer!

    Quote Originally Posted by nzagha View Post
    You guys are great players! ... and I am still learning the game
    I have burnt so many good leads it's not even funny

    All apart of my learning process... For instance tonight I tried a canned txt opener on a stripper and it totally backfired in my face.

    I'm sure I will waste many more numbers before I am proficent

    Although sometimes all this stuff does work and when it does it's amazing.
    .-* WWWEEE *-.


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