I wanted to write this to seek your wisdom on something's I'm still having trouble with.
See, whenever I'm in a interaction or think about getting in a interaction, I keep thinking of these weird things:
I think if I try to go for a kiss, I'll get a slap to the face or a punch in the face from her BF.
I think If I try to go for a escalation or kino, she might take it wrong way and think I'm trying tommolest her.
And so on and so forth.
I don't know if these things would actually happen, but they kinda prevent me from even doing anything or make approaches.
In fact, I've concocted this grand scene in my head that if I go to approach a girl at a bar, she either laughs at me, slaps me, or whatever, then her BF comes over and kicks my ass, then the employees throw me out because I tried to escalate or make out with the girl or even just having a escalating interaction.
Now, this scenario may seem asinine, but often our imagination is.
Guys, I know I've posted before about these inner game issues, and I apologize for bringing it up again.
I have noticed improvements even in other aspects in my life from this material, but when it comes to the actual women part, I'm still struggling.
And pieces of advice to finally quell these self doubts and beliefs?