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    .complete.noob is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Wrecked my life.. Give me some hope!!

    I'm 25 in a few weeks.. Everything is fked!

    Spent virtually seven years in social isolation, no friends to speak of really and don't know how to make other 'real' friends.. sure, I have no problem chatting to people, but when it comes to real friends.. How do I make those?

    I'm not working at the moment, I have no education..

    I not-so-recently fell out with a girl who has been important to me since I was fifteen (having a REAL hard time coming to terms with that) so badly that I can't ever say "Hi" to her again - long story, but it's farked beyond any kind of repair, and chances are I never find another I vibe with like her, kicked myself a bunch of times while I was down, threw away everything of a friendship with her. Fked the lot - It's just shot. My whole life, shot!

    Feel like I've wasted the best years of my life (18-24), thrown away important friendships, bent out of shape, broke, with a bad history of causing problems.. Fked!

    How do I get this sht back on track? I want to be happy! I want a life!! I don't want to end up that sad, lonely old man that hasn't done anything! What can I do?!

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    Default Re: Wrecked my life.. Give me some hope!!

    Tell yourself loudly "I AM A PIECE OF SHIT"
    Throw down and punch your ego (i tell this Golloum) every single day
    Take massive action chunk by chunk.
    I suggest to look Tyler RSD all videos with focus,Meditate,look Tony Robins and read Echart Tolle.
    Trust Thoughts-Words-Actions
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    Default Re: Wrecked my life.. Give me some hope!!

    I've been there myself. You have to understand that what you are going through is a process. It will take time. No matter how much energy you spend to rush through it.

    Also understand that everyone has had heartache. Some aren't as bad as yours. Others have had is worse. It's a part of life and comes with the territory of falling in love. Those years are NOT wasted. Because you will be productive. You'll workout. Go out to meet new people. Meet new women. Learn about our skills and how to master them. You would have acquired experience and would have learned from them. You WILL get there. Take it ONE day at a time and don't rush it.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Wrecked my life.. Give me some hope!!

    You're 25. You have at least 50 years left on this earth, go out and make the best of them. I personally believe in something called the secret, whatever you give to the universe you get back almost immediately. Here's something I want you to try.

    Go out today, this week, or next weekend and have your goal to make 20 people smile. Men, women, children. That's it, not to make new friends, not to get a girlfriend, not to get something in return. Just make every person you interact with smile. You're giving the universe and other people selfless happy energy.

    When you finally achieve this goal I'd be willing to bet every one of my possessions that you will feel 100% better and realize that life is what you make of it. You choose how you feel when you start the day, you choose who you want to be. So go make yourself into that person.


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