Re: Wrecked my life.. Give me some hope!!
I've been there myself. You have to understand that what you are going through is a process. It will take time. No matter how much energy you spend to rush through it.
Also understand that everyone has had heartache. Some aren't as bad as yours. Others have had is worse. It's a part of life and comes with the territory of falling in love. Those years are NOT wasted. Because you will be productive. You'll workout. Go out to meet new people. Meet new women. Learn about our skills and how to master them. You would have acquired experience and would have learned from them. You WILL get there. Take it ONE day at a time and don't rush it.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."