Hey guys, I recently cut things off with a girl I had oneitus for. I pretty much told her I have more respect for myself than to wait for her to figure out her feelings, because we're young, she has no idea what she wants.
But like it has been before with this same girl, she'll usually come back, in an almost escalated friend zone, hold hands, cute texts, telling me she likes me a lot, whatever that is lol. I'm not her happybuddy and I told her im not going to orbit around her to make her happy.
So in case of a "I think I made a mistake by letting us end" text/message/call, what would be the best way for continuing on? I'd still be interested in dating her, but on my terms. But she feels weird about dating, because she's really gifted and smart, so she lets logic think and doesn't like using her emotions. I told her to call me if she wanted to figure it out and she said "ugh, i cant. im sorry. i dont like feelings and talking about them." and I told her "That tells me something." and told her to have a great weekend.
She's friends with my bestfriend who's also orbiting around her because quite frankly, he has depression issues, he has oneitus for this girl, and he's best friends with her as well. I don't want none of her shit, but I see her all the time during the week, she eats lunch at the same table as me. Thank god for no classes with her. To be honest, with my friends, I think his depression issues stem from his self esteem issues from being friendzoned so hard by this girl, that and he doesn't really like people and doesn't make the effort to talk to them and then thinks nobody likes him. Hah, go figure, right?
Anyways, if a message like that came up. What would be the best way of going about beginning to date her? I'm not interested in a platonic friendship with her right now, but I want to be in control if she does come back.
"I think I made a mistake"
"Damn right you did!" That amused me lol