Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 4 of 4
  1. #1
    noreason41 is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 61, Level: 1
    Level completed: 22%, Points required for next Level: 39
    Overall activity: 4.0%
    Join Date
    Sep 2012
    Posts
    3
    Points
    61
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Slept with attached girl, need help in next phase

    So the night before last, I ended up sleeping with a girl i've known for a few years now. We've slept together a few times, and she used to have a big crush on me - but i never went beyond fbuddies with her.
    She has a boyfriend apparently, which i only found out after i got to her place, and he's been overseas for a few days, comes back Friday (7 days total). [Note; i don't think she's to serious about her boyfriend, as she'd just gotten out of a 2.5 year relationship before him]

    I've just returned from overseas (6months) and haven't seen her in about a year - year and a half. I initiated conversation and ended up at her place about 3 hours later.

    I texted her twice yesterday, but got pretty basic replies so i left it at that.

    Then today, I received a text from her phone (but apparently her friend who i also know) it went something like this "Holly's a tad fuzzy from the night before last! We need to know if you two slept together because she's not sure!! - nothing personal, u know what she's like"

    My thoughts are that she's either not interested whatsoever in doing this again, or she's feeling guilty over what she did to her bf.

    Can anyone help with their thoughts on this, and also any advice on how to reply to this text without coming off too much as a chode!

    Much appreciated

  2. #2
    sidewinder89 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 4,453, Level: 45
    Level completed: 36%, Points required for next Level: 97
    Overall activity: 3.7%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Posts
    552
    Points
    4,453
    Level
    45
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 2 Posts
    Rep Power
    230

    Default Re: Slept with attached girl, need help in next phase

    I need to know what you want to achieve out of this before offering advice...

    But I would say do not reply to that text, you don't really know who sent it. Unless she was totally wasted she knows whether you slept together. No need to leave a recorded proof of the deed.

    She's cheated, trust me she will be feeling guilty about it. I would suggest a phone call to clear the air and make sure everyone knows where they stand.

  3. #3
    noreason41 is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 61, Level: 1
    Level completed: 22%, Points required for next Level: 39
    Overall activity: 4.0%
    Join Date
    Sep 2012
    Posts
    3
    Points
    61
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Slept with attached girl, need help in next phase

    Thanks for the advice.
    Pretty much spot on what i was thinking. Haven't text back and had no intention to, thought it may No, she definitely knows we slept together.

    What am i trying to achieve;
    Well aim 1 would be to date her, I feel we get along quite well and etc etc...

    But my thoughts are such that i shouldn't act differently regardless of aim, no?

    Again, thanks for the advice and anymore advice would be appreciated

  4. #4
    sidewinder89 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 4,453, Level: 45
    Level completed: 36%, Points required for next Level: 97
    Overall activity: 3.7%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Posts
    552
    Points
    4,453
    Level
    45
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 2 Posts
    Rep Power
    230

    Default Re: Slept with attached girl, need help in next phase

    Ok but here's a quick thought, do you want to date a girl that cheated on her bf this easily, ok he may be a complete afc but my experience has taught me to stay away from the easy cheat type...

    If you do want to date her then you need to have an actual conversation either in person or via phone to talk about it. Be very prepared for her to stick with her chump bf though.

    attached women come with complications, my advice generally is to stick to singles for an easier life but thats just my opinion


Similar Threads

  1. Girl getting too attached and I'm not wanting a relationship
    By needmygameback in forum General Questions
    Replies: 10
    Last Thread: 11-29-2012, 10:27 PM
  2. Girl knows I slept with her friend, is this bad?
    By independence13 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 5
    Last Thread: 10-17-2012, 06:36 AM
  3. How do I get a girl I've Already slept with to sleep with me again
    By Chrisp1987 in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 09-02-2012, 04:52 AM
  4. approach anxiety w/ girl i already slept with!!
    By Rando9009 in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 14
    Last Thread: 08-30-2012, 02:33 AM
  5. Replies: 7
    Last Thread: 05-24-2012, 11:13 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com