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    Default Re: Advice needed: Inner game..

    Quote Originally Posted by The Elitist View Post
    Validation is a terrible drug my friend.
    How do I get rid of the need for it? I want more beautiful girls to have fun with, I can't be hung up on this one for much longer! I need to feel powerful again. This is fking with my life big time!

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    Default Re: Advice needed: Inner game..

    Do I just need more options to forget about this girl who I thought was so special?

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    Default Re: Advice needed: Inner game..

    Quote Originally Posted by .complete.noob View Post
    How do I figure out this difference? I never felt anything like I do for her before this sht happened. It's killing me!
    The best way to tell is to ask yourself if you are in control or have you given all control over to a woman? If your happiness is dependent upon that women, she has you. If you are supplicating to her out of fear of losing her, she has you. In fact, if you're scared of losing her, more likely than not she has you.

    In my mind, this is what being alpha means. You don't need anyone elses validation to be happy with who you are. If you do something and someone else doesn't like it or judges you for it, it doesn't matter because you don't need their approval anyways (this isn't to say you shouldn't take others into consideration, it just means that you are comfortable enough with yourself that the judgments of others don't affect you). It's being in control of your own states. If someone says, "I'm only happy with her," this is the most beta statement ever because you're handing the power over your happiness to someone else.

    Are you in control or is she? In your case, it's quite clear what the answer is and I don't even know you!
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Advice needed: Inner game..

    I gave her that power because I loved her/love her. I had a lot of good times with her. It's not that I can't be happy without her, it's about her remembering me in a terrible way. I really acted like a twat to her when we fell out. That's what's getting me down and stopping me from moving on from this. She's gone because I was a twat to her. Now I'm scared she was my chance at having my dream girl. Honestly never met anyone like her and I've screwed it up.

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    Default Re: Advice needed: Inner game..

    Honestly never met anyone like her and I've screwed it up.
    look man, you cannot change the past, you can't start over with her, and you won't find a girl identical to her. these are just the cold hard facts of life. you're not the only one who has screwed up with a girl you really liked. but you can't fix what you've broken. communication is ireversable, once you say something you can't take it back and once you have screwed up, you cannot fix your circumstance, you can only learn from it and move on to the next girl. i'm sure you will find other girls you like just as much in the future, and you won't make the same mistakes again


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