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    Default She's Negging Me!

    OK, I under the use of negs on an HB10. What happens when they seem to using the same list of negs on me?

    Last time I went to see her I dressed up. I know, and she knows I looked go. Here is bits of the convo:


    Her: Why did you dress up?
    Me: I'm dressed up. These are some old clothes.
    Her: The worn shoe look is in style (she totally negged me here)
    Me: Who cares I dress how I want!

    we had a bit more conversation and then...

    Her: Oh look, that guy has the same jacket as you! (Neg #2)
    Me: That's the cool thing about guys, we don't give a shit if someone else is wearing what we are wearing. But girls, If a guy said that to a girl they would freak!
    Her: Yeah, I would be like BITCH!!!! That's my jacket.

    Ok, I think I handled myself Ok. I didn't miss a beat and I did not let it bother me.

    I need advice what to do as it appears she is using the same play by play handbook, which means it is nearing impossible to get an upper hand with this girl.

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    Default Re: She's Negging Me!

    Man, girls neg me all the time. The best thing to do, is just ignore it and pretend u didn't even hear it after. Just brush it off. If you don't give any attention to it, she will stop. Have fun!
    Life is too short. Go ahead. Live it up. And enjoy the ride before its over(;

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    Default Have the Tables Turned?

    This is a good sign. From the looks of the conversation, she is negging you in a playful matter. If she didn't want anything to do with you, she would be giving you way different responses.

    The way you brushed her off was good. It showed that you had confidence in your appearance and you didn't care what other people thought of you. In the second conversation, your return fire neg was perfect. It showed her that you were a playful type.

    With what I have said up to this point, don't get ahead of yourself. Just because it looks like she may be interested in you, it does not mean it will be the same way in the next conversation. Just make sure you keep your cool and stay natural. Continue to play along with her, and you'll be alright.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: She's Negging Me!

    Thanks Swagman for the words of encouragement. And I do know not to get a head of myself. This girl is a handful, but she is a keeper...I know I sound like an AFC when I say that, but I've gotten as far as I have with her because I have kept my cool with every sh1t test she has put in front of me. Here is one recent convo:

    Her: Diet Coke is bad for you.
    Me: I'm still here.
    Her: You need to listen to me.
    Me: I have never listened to you. I can make my own decisions.
    Her (bowing her head submissively) I know. (collecting her thoughts) But You did listen to me when you took your last college exam.
    Mer: Yes, and I appreciated you help. It helped me get a 98% on it.

    There has been a few times when it appears she has just given up and will finally submit to me. I'm totally cool to her and she knows what a great catch I would be for her.

    I started some jealousy happening with a few girls and that is driving her crazy, but she retaliates with guys on me to get me jealous.

    Lots of game playing, but once and if we get past this, I will be a happy man.

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    Default Re: She's Negging Me!

    Hey Gogo,

    I had a girl like that in the past and she was definitely a keeper. A girl like that will challenge you and keep you on your toes. Definitely, not boring. She knows how to push/pull, at times come off alpha but at times shows her vulnerable side and be submissive, which is sexy. In all honesty, she was the most memorable and she wasn't even hot.

    I would say something absurd and got negged by her saying "omg. I knew I loved you just for your body."

    The cool thing is it gives you a perspective from a woman's POV being on the receiving end. The way you feel now with her push/pull, if done right, is how a woman is sparked.

    The best thing to do is have fun with it and keep up with her jabs and what it broils down to is some major sexual tension.

    The key is if you get negged, don't come off as defensive or else she will read into it that defensive folks are hiding that fault. Best is to counter with a neg of your own.

    A girl once said to me, "That was a soft handshake" (after I intro myself.) That would catch most guys offguard. I just turned it around.

    ME: Whoa. What are you? A guy? Cuz only guys say that. Let me feel youuuur handshake.
    (she shakes my hand)
    ME: Not bad, I give it a B. You must have alot of older brothers right?
    (called it and transition off to a cold read)

    In the case of your girl, I would've jabbed her back.

    Her: Oh look, that guy has the same jacket as you!
    You: You need a napkin? I see some drool oozing from the corner of your mouth. Don't worry. I'd Fvck him too.

    Her: Why did you dress up?
    You: Oh because I'm saving my lingerie for Wednesday nights because it makes me feel so sexy.

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    Default Re: She's Negging Me!

    Some great ideas, thanks.

    I posted earlier about this girl and some guys said she FZ me...but In all honesty, there was something else going on. She has had her chance to FZ me, but has not. I know our age difference is a huge factor and she said sh1t like that she has trouble dealing with so she just doesn't deal with it. She is afraid she would forever be explaining herself.

    I can see her wheels spinning when I don't get mad or when I keep coming back for more. It's like holy crap, this guy is the real deal.

    She once said, What am I going to do with you? I failed to have a witty comeback, but since then I have compiled 2 pages of "what she can do with me" for next time she says it, and I know she will. She is pretty predictable, but I'm not letting on that I can see her patterns. Sometimes I just play stupid to make her think she pulled one over on me....it makes her feel superior.

    Some of the things on the "what should I do with you" list:

    shoot me and chop my body up into little pieces and scatter the remains in the river

    Take me back to her place and F the sh!t out of me

    Make me breakfast

    go to vegas and marry me

    send me naked texts

    Ignore me for the rest of her life and become a full fledge lesbian

    Lots of fun ones on the list that I think she will like. Lots of sexual ideas.


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