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Thread: New to day game, advice on what I said

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    Default New to day game, advice on what I said

    Hey guys, a little info on myself:

    I'm used to being outgoing, but not full out hitting on girls in daytime environments.

    I'm around a 9/10, bodybuilder physique with good facial aesthetics. Been lifting for 7 years. No problem attracting girls based on physicality, but I'm looking for a date these days, rather than a 1 night stand.

    So I hit on a girl at the grocery store today. She was the clerk, I was buying groceries. She says how many do I have (items) and I joke that she's supposed to be the one counting. We started relating on video games (she's nerdy), a 7/10. I decide before I leave to ask if shes single. she says she has a bf, but thanks for asking. so I say have a nice day. Convo was casual and relaxed.

    I go to ross, and see a 9/10 next to the headphone isle. I ask if she knows where any good headphones are. She takes me to them, says a comment about hello kitty. I joke that I'm not a fan of hello kitty, teasing slightly. Told her I'm getting the headphones because I like electronic music. Asked if she liked electronic music, she says no. So far, not relating on anything. After a small interaction with no connection on similar interests, I tell her she's cute, and introduce myself with a handshake. I then ask if she's single, and get a no.

    I kind of relied on my physicality for the last one, but I'm wondering if its a bad idea to ask if they are single. That seems to be what I naturally ask after about 2 minutes of convo. However, I've asked the single thing in the daytime to 6 girls this past month, and gotten 1 yes (and her #). I figured since I'm athletic and confident, it's ok for me to quickly ask their status as they are already attracted to me physically.

    I have no friends that hit on girls often, so I figured I'd ask the forums about my closing. Is it ok to ask if their single after small talking for 30 sec-2min? And do I have to connect on similar interests, or is teasing/banter enough to have them interested in a date. Thanks

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    Default Re: New to day game, advice on what I said

    So it has been a while since I have posted but I figure this will be a good place to start.

    This is strictly my opinion but personally I dont ever ask a girl if she is single. If I strike up a conversation the first thing I look for is a weeding band. If she is not wearing one then its open season on the prairie. Now please do not mistake this as lacking morals. If I am talking up a woman and she comes out and say I have a boyfriend I will pull back a couple of steps. Then begin a boyfriend destroying routine. But if she is engaged thats it convo is over. I wont destroy a soon to be marriage. But the key is dont ask. All you are doing by asking if she is single no matter how great your flirting was going with her over your previous 2 mins of conversation is one of a number of things. Either internally shes feeling doubt about your intentions or worse especially in your circumstances she thinking about her boyfriend. Just continue on the conversation without the question.

    Hope that answers your question.

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    Default Re: New to day game, advice on what I said

    I have no friends that hit on girls often, so I figured I'd ask the forums about my closing. Is it ok to ask if their single after small talking for 30 sec-2min? And do I have to connect on similar interests, or is teasing/banter enough to have them interested in a date. Thanks
    i have to say that asking them if they are single is not something i do, instead get their number. usually they won't give it out so freely when they are in a relationship. btw, flirty banter is all you need to get her number and set up a date, you don't really have to connect with her till your first date.

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    Default Re: New to day game, advice on what I said

    Hey Sinister,

    I see what you're saying about asking if they are single. It might come off as trying to have sex only, which can be intimidating. I had previously thought of it as a way of telling and asking them if they are interested in me. I guess I do it as a sort of "ok" to myself to ask them on a date/their phone number.

    Yeah Meteora, asking for the number/ a date instead of if they are single would make it more simple.

    Thanks for the responses guys.


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