Hey guys, a little info on myself:
I'm used to being outgoing, but not full out hitting on girls in daytime environments.
I'm around a 9/10, bodybuilder physique with good facial aesthetics. Been lifting for 7 years. No problem attracting girls based on physicality, but I'm looking for a date these days, rather than a 1 night stand.
So I hit on a girl at the grocery store today. She was the clerk, I was buying groceries. She says how many do I have (items) and I joke that she's supposed to be the one counting. We started relating on video games (she's nerdy), a 7/10. I decide before I leave to ask if shes single. she says she has a bf, but thanks for asking. so I say have a nice day. Convo was casual and relaxed.
I go to ross, and see a 9/10 next to the headphone isle. I ask if she knows where any good headphones are. She takes me to them, says a comment about hello kitty. I joke that I'm not a fan of hello kitty, teasing slightly. Told her I'm getting the headphones because I like electronic music. Asked if she liked electronic music, she says no. So far, not relating on anything. After a small interaction with no connection on similar interests, I tell her she's cute, and introduce myself with a handshake. I then ask if she's single, and get a no.
I kind of relied on my physicality for the last one, but I'm wondering if its a bad idea to ask if they are single. That seems to be what I naturally ask after about 2 minutes of convo. However, I've asked the single thing in the daytime to 6 girls this past month, and gotten 1 yes (and her #). I figured since I'm athletic and confident, it's ok for me to quickly ask their status as they are already attracted to me physically.
I have no friends that hit on girls often, so I figured I'd ask the forums about my closing. Is it ok to ask if their single after small talking for 30 sec-2min? And do I have to connect on similar interests, or is teasing/banter enough to have them interested in a date. Thanks