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    Default Girls calling me out on being COCKY.

    Well i am a confident guy, After all, we are all pretty confident.

    Anyways, so i was just called out on being cocky multiple times by many girls.

    Things like :
    -Your super cocky
    -OMG your so cocky
    -You are soooooo cocky
    -etc, etc, and the list goes on

    My usual response is this:
    "Im not cocky, i have the perfect amount of confidece, cocky is when you cross the line"

    If they continue to call me cocky.

    I give them reasons for me being so confident.

    And at one point she goes like think "do you think i like you?" which i had no idea to what she wanted from that, cuz she friendzoned me for sure, but i kept bein cocky and funny.

    Any idea as to whther i should tweak it down a little? which is what i have done for the last 2 weeks.
    Life is too short. Go ahead. Live it up. And enjoy the ride before its over(;

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    Default Re: Girls calling me out on being COCKY.

    If you had multiple girls call you cocky and in wasn't it a flirty and playful way, then yea, you should tweak it. You're being too cocky, tone it down.

    Overly cocky has two set backs. It can make you appear needy because the girls will think you're correcting for something. Or alternatively, it can decrease your attainability to the point where women are going to think they can't get with you, so instead they'll start blowing you off as a means of protecting their egos.

    You need to take feedback from the field and work with it. If you're being told you're too cocky AND you're not getting results, somethings going wrong. Correct it!
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    Default Re: Girls calling me out on being COCKY.

    alright. but the thing is i am getting results, they love to hangout with me. They cannot stay away from me. Im basically amazing company. But it kinda makes me look like a player is what im getting at. Cuz i complinented this one girl and she said you probably say that to all girls. and she believes in everything i say. They keep asking whther i realy think theyre stong or confident etc. Im just having trouble getting stuck in the damn friendzone with this one girl i really like, and i turned the cockiness down by a lot.
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    Default Re: Girls calling me out on being COCKY.

    I'm gonna channel The Red Baron here and say that you're probably coming off as cocky because your frame isn't as solid as you're acting like it is.

    I can tell because when she says "you're so cocky" you mentioned that you tend to explain (aka qualify) yourself to her after you've accepted her frame of "you're cocky"

    A lot of times high confidence will come off as cockiness if there isn't any vulnerability (by giving IOIs or ability to emote). If you are confident and don't fear vulnerability then you're confident, but if you don't have any depth to the rapport with her (as in only using cocky funny) then you'll come off as cocky. You might still get laid regularly, but probably not much beyond that.

    Next time she says "you're cocky" try swinging back with "you're insecure" *big cheely smile* and then immediately follow up with a good ability to emote routine or immediately follow with something like "which you have no reason to be. You're a gorgeous, sexy woman, how many men in this room tonight have been checkinf you out while we're standing here..." actually that would be a good place to use Kino's bombshell.

    Oh and P.s. if you use the response I listed, you're gonna have not pause too long after you tell her she's insecure or else you'll probably end up wearing her drink fyi

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    Default Re: Girls calling me out on being COCKY.

    HMM... thanks a lot! it is making a lot of sence now. That really helps. i will read it a few times to sync it into my head. that is some serious advice. thanks bro!
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    Default Re: Girls calling me out on being COCKY.

    This ain't as deep as autismus's response but it's a line I like to use and with the right frame its soo much fun

    Her: omg, your soooo cocky sometimes
    Me: why do u sound surprised?.......... have u seen me?

    It's got to seem like your messing around a little bit, but can be so much fun and get some real good banter going :L not entirely sure it's the best thing for my game but it amuses me to say it so I don't care too much :L

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Girls calling me out on being COCKY.

    Ohhh and @autismus does the p.s advice come from personal experience? just wondering

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Girls calling me out on being COCKY.

    @linking. that is an amazing line. tahnk a lot <3 luv u bro.
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    Default Re: Girls calling me out on being COCKY.

    Don't use the L word.......I have commitment issues and it scares me .........

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Girls calling me out on being COCKY.

    lmao. lets just be friends. (i feel like being brotherzoned)
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