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    I am in a situation where I don't exactly know what to do. I met this gorgeous woman who is mom of two and about the same age as mine about four months ago. We meet on bus on our way to work. We don't work for the same company but our offices are next to each others. We used to take the same bus and it went on for the last months. We got to know each other as the time moved on. We used to sit beside each other every single day. We never went for a date until recently. Two weeks back we went for out first lunch date. Again this Friday she asked me out for lunch. I bought a car three weeks back and from then on I pick her up every morning on our way to work. Since we finish different times we don't go back together. We meet everyday during lunch time as well for smoke.

    She says she has a boyfriend and the guy lives in England. She also says she's going back to England in June. But now we live in Toronto. I like her so much and sometimes I feel like falling for her. I know she likes me too. May be not the way I do. We text each other but not in a romantic way. I showed my intention to kiss her (never pushed her though) but she tactfully avoids that. I don't want to do something which will create a gap between us. Need some advice please.

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    Default Re: need advice

    Hi rezaone!

    Well, you said that she like's you, but not in the same way...then, that make me guess that she's LJBF's you! Or the things change a lot, or you will be in the friendzone! and more if you try to kiss her and she denied. Also, she have a BF. But in England. That is good. The distance relation NEVER WORK, so maybe after a few months she's not interested in him anymore.

    Anyway, on my opinion, you are being to good with her. Driving her every day, and probably holding her problems when she's upset...

    Recomendation, 2 step's back. Try to be a little bit more desinterested in her the following week, and see what happen. Anyway...you seem's like u are in the Oneitis moon... Go out and sarge my friend!

    Hope i could help you

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    Hi CrazySpaniard,
    Thanks for your advice. That's exactly what I have in my mine. I showed a lot of interest in her but as you said I'll back off for sometime. This morning we came to work bit early and we were sitting in the car and having coffee. So I was asking her whats new. She says she's counting days to go back. I said ok we have five months let's share a secret. Let's become unofficial BF/GF but she said I have a BF. I replied so? he's not gonna no. She said well we'r friends and there will be nothing more and she smiled I said ok. I'll text you at lunch time as she asked me out for lunch today. I don't know what's happening.

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    Default Re: need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by rezaone View Post
    Hi CrazySpaniard,
    Thanks for your advice. That's exactly what I have in my mine. I showed a lot of interest in her but as you said I'll back off for sometime. This morning we came to work bit early and we were sitting in the car and having coffee. So I was asking her whats new. She says she's counting days to go back. I said ok we have five months let's share a secret. Let's become unofficial BF/GF but she said I have a BF. I replied so? he's not gonna no. She said well we'r friends and there will be nothing more and she smiled I said ok. I'll text you at lunch time as she asked me out for lunch today. I don't know what's happening.
    Not, to be harsh but you have oneitis. You have posted on this board three times about the same girl. it sounds like you are firmly planted in the friend zone, you just refuse to accept it. She likes you and enjoys your company but at this point you are nothing more than a girlfriend of hers that happens to have a penis.


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