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    azflyer is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need advice with cute girl at work

    Ok, so here's the story. We work in the same department at an airline of about 100 people and I've had my eye on her for a few months. Last night, our dept. had a happy hour and I got the chance to talk to her for really the first time for about 40-45 minutes and it went pretty well. So today at work I began to IM her on our office communicator; I've included our conversation below. My question is what you guys think of our IM conversation and your advice for my next step.

    Here's the backdrop to our conversation; she still lives at home, so I teased her a bit about that, she's never been to Vegas and we have a kickball league forming and I saw her doing situps on the floor outside her cube which I referenced as well.

    Me 10:30 AM
    So did ur parents have dinner ready and waiting for u last night?
    I asssume u made ur curfew
    Her 10:31 AM
    haha actually i ended up grabbing dinner with a friend on the way back!
    Me 10:32 AM
    oh yeah? a litle jack in the box maybe?
    Her 10:32 AM
    PANERA!
    Me 10:33 AM
    dang, that's pretty high quality!
    Her 10:34 AM
    i know....i splurged a bit haha
    Me 10:34 AM
    haha, yeah me too...i ended up getting whataburger
    my colon regretted it, but it was worth it at the time
    Her 10:42 AM
    Haha cool
    how was the rest of the HH?
    Me 10:49 AM
    it was good, "old man andorf" and I were the last to leave
    think we're having another HH around feb 13??
    that's the rumor anyways
    Her 1:10 PM
    nice let me know!
    Me 2:58 PM
    will do
    u still plannin on goin to Austin tonight?
    Her 2:58 PM
    yep yep
    Me 2:59 PM
    I'm ashamed to admit I've never been there :|
    Her 2:59 PM
    WHAT!?
    Me 2:59 PM
    that's almost as embarrassing as never having been to LAS

    Her 2:59 PM
    haha more! bc its in Texas !
    Me 3:00 PM
    true true
    so what's up w/the situps?!
    getting in shape for the kickball league?
    Her 3:02 PM
    all part of wellness!
    Me 3:02 PM
    that's dedication, on the 1970-ish carpet nonetheless!
    Her 3:02 PM
    haha so true
    Me 3:03 PM
    Travis and i have been doin some yoga over here
    we keep on the down low
    Her 3:07 PM
    nice!
    its good for you!
    Me 3:13 PM
    haha, i'm pretty sure we'd barely be able to balance ourselves on one foot if we had to
    Her 3:13 PM
    keep on keeping on
    Me 3:13 PM
    baby steps....
    we'll probably strain our calves or something at the first kickball game
    Her 3:54 PM
    you got time to get in shape haha
    Me 3:57 PM
    i'm not sure a month's time will be enough
    .....are u saying i'm out of shape?!
    haha
    Her 3:58 PM
    oops didnt mean to imply that haha
    you were talking about pulling a muscle soooo
    Me 3:58 PM
    haha

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    Default Re: Need advice with cute girl at work

    Well, personally, I would avoid dating females from work...

    But if you insist on doing so, looks like your convo is pretty good and you know what you'r doing; a little teasing here and there. The only change I would make is to try to keep your texts at the same lengths as her, and ask her to hang out with you soon. Don't want to wait too long... Also do it in person rather than IM. It's ballsier and shows confidence

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    Default Re: Need advice with cute girl at work

    adding to sc, you consistently put yourself in bad light, I can't highlight the points on iPhone, but it was the yoga part/the place you should've gone to, don't lower yourself just to keep a convo going

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    Default Re: Need advice with cute girl at work

    Here's an update:

    She really got her ass handed to her workload wise this week putting together a sale, early in and out late, and w/meetings; hence she shot me down to go get water where I planned on building up some more banter w/her as opposed to just IM-ing. Regardless here's our latest (brief) IM's.

    Monday's IM's
    Me 2:29 PM
    hey, how was Austin?

    Her 2:33 PM
    SO good
    hadn't been there in forev, so it ws fun to be back

    Me 2:36 PM
    nice, get ur honkey tonk groove back on down there

    Her 2:50 PM
    haha yeah
    you have a good wkend?

    Me 2:51 PM
    not too shabby
    want to get some water?

    Her 2:52 PM
    i gotta send up a sale!

    Me 2:53 PM
    plz, that work stuff is sooo overrated

    Her 2:53 PM
    lol but really
    its the big one tomr haha

    Me 2:54 PM
    oh yeah, i remember hearing something about that

    Today's IM's
    Me 1:26 PM
    How's the sale goin?
    u need a sleeping bag
    or a maybe a cot for ur cube

    Her 1:28 PM
    made it to the website so hopefully we're good now!

    Me 1:33 PM
    i'm sure it'll be fine, if not just blame it on Jake

    Her 1:41 PM
    good plan haha

    conversation died right there as she had another meeting to go to.


    Let me just preface this that she is the type to settle down with which is what I’m looking for and not a booty call.

    Here’s the thing, I’m truly conflicted as I’m leaning towards her being Naïve (she’s a “good girl”, a bit on the quiet side, strikes me as a girl with a bit of faith… not fanatically religious but “traditional” if that makes sense) as opposed to not being interested in me.

    Of the following options, what do you think works best? I don't want to give up on this girl YET.

    A. Let things be (No IM's) until our next happy hour get together outside of work next week and chat her up then.

    B. IM her later this week (thu or fri) when she's less busy seeing what she’s up to this weekend etc., of course adding banter and seeing what happens.

    C. Other suggestions/strategies.

    Thank You PUA's

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    Default Re: Need advice with cute girl at work

    give it a few days, take her for a walk in the park or something low pressure, get her to open up while physically escalating (kino )

    she seems a bit non-interested at this stage, from what i'm understanding is you've expressed interest to her alot and she's taking advantage of it by being "her"

    disappear for a bit - giving her a chance to miss you


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