Hi, I've been going out with a iNvestor Denier Realist girl for 4 months and everything has gone perfect so far. But I'm afraid sometimes too perfect. I've heard that if an iNvestor tames her boyfriend she will lose interest. She calls me the perfect boyfriend, but has mentioned that her friends have something to fix, then she says she is glad that "I don't have to change for her." Some background info on her, she has been in one long term abusive relationship in the past so she's not picky at all. To compensate, I've been leaning towards the really unclingy boyfriend. And I'm glad to say she has me beat on the clingyness. My question is when she tells me things like that wants to be in the relationship for a long time, or makes future plans way in advance to "secure" that we'll still be together. Should I agree with her and say that I also want to be with her for a long time, or should I brush it off and seem indifferent. With a NDR is it ok to reassure her that I have the same intensity as her. Or should I stay out of reach a bit. Any other advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks.