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Thread: How can I be a mean ***hole and still keep the girl!

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    Default How can I be a mean ***hole and still keep the girl!

    I noticed being rude and disrespectful to a girl works sometimes, I need to know what things I can say and or do to manipulate the girl into doing things for me and have her sticking around. Things that will hit those emotional buttons and what are some of your favorite things to do in these situations. To have her frustrated and scared of losing me and also what things I can do to her to have her think about me for a long time, and come back to me at some point in the future.

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    Default Re: How can I be a mean ***hole and still keep the girl!

    This is the mentality of a disrespectful asshole and not a PUA. A PUA doesn't "manipulate" women into doing things for him. He helps her find and justify the things she wants. It's a subtle difference at first, but when you understand the difference it's huge.

    Being disrespectful and rude only works on women who are insecure, since being disrespectful and rude is just a sign of your insecurities. On the other hand, being confident and not letting women step over your boundaries will get you women consistently and will get you HB 9s and 10s.

    If you want to be an asshole, find a different forum to get help from
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    There's something you and many others need to realize about the difference between jerks and nice guys. Why is it that nice guys always finish last? Why is it that the nice guys usually never get the kind of girl that they want? Why is it that even when the nice guy finally wins, the jerk wins even more?

    The difference between the two, to simply put it, is balls.

    Women are always looking for a man who proves that he is such. Usually standing up to women and other men proves that you are more than capable of supporting yourself. If you ever apologize to a girl for anything or back down because you think you did something to offend her, she will only lose interest in you herself.

    Being a jerk to girls works for a time because it shows that you are a strong man who doesn't put up with much. It especially works on women who have bitch shields, mainly because it shows that you are not willing to tolerate their garbage. However, if used too much, it can backfire and just make you look like a jerk all together.

    The best way to go is to be a nice guy with guts. Simply put, don't be dependent on her, stand up for yourself often, and don't let her push you around with favors and such. Being a jerk to her will only make her perceive you as one. Your goal is to make her dependent on you, not the other way around.

    As to answer your question, be sporadic with your responding times. One moment answer within 2 minutes of a text; the next respond in two hours. When you do respond, make sure you don't send her massive text messages. Keep them short and sweet. Also, do not always be at her beck and whim. Some nights, you just have to say "No, I can't make those plans". And when you invite her to make plans and she says no, tell her how great your time was and make her regret not doing anything with you.

    Another way to capture her interest is to keep conversations interesting. Go through the forums and check out all of the interesting conversation starters and text games there are. You'll find some really good ones. Generic questions like "What's up?" will only receive generic responses. Think outside the box.
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    Default Re: How can I be a mean ***hole and still keep the girl!

    Quote Originally Posted by thetawolf View Post
    I noticed being rude and disrespectful to a girl works sometimes, I need to know what things I can say and or do to manipulate the girl into doing things for me and have her sticking around. Things that will hit those emotional buttons and what are some of your favorite things to do in these situations. To have her frustrated and scared of losing me and also what things I can do to her to have her think about me for a long time, and come back to me at some point in the future.
    Thetawolf you GOTTA fix your mindset. You think you need a magic spell to trick women into liking you because you don't think you're likable. Fix that. You see yourself as invalid and lacking in worth and you think that taking revenge on women for all thier misdeeds will fix your life. It won't.

    There is nothing you can do to manipulate a woman a woman into liking you. That's not why bad boys get girls and nice guys don't. Jerks get girls because women are attra cted to a man who knows his high value. Jerks walk around lile they're the king of the world, while nice guys offer themselves up to women like she's a queen. And if she's been socialized to think she's hot (which if she is, she does) she's gonna go for the jerk who acts like a farken king rather than the nice guy who acts like a servant.

    You can be a jerk, and it might even work a few times a month. But that's not pickup. Pick up is about knowing your value (and actually having some - tho you can "fake it til you make it"). Game is about knowing you're the king of your own world and inviting a girl in (if she's queen material).

    And I'd even go so far as to say that eventually, after she's proven herself, a PUA does treat his girl as a queen, because he doesn't accept any female of lower value, because he's the king.

    So in summary, Wolf: Stop looking for magic tricks. Figure out what is likable about you (and separate that from what is un-likable). And know yoir own value. ...that's what we call a self-assessment and IMO it's the first step in becoming a PUA.
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    Default Re: How can I be a mean ***hole and still keep the girl!

    She is constantly apologizing for anything she says, which in turns makes me feel pitted almost. She says I am mean, and horrible and I feel like i am hurting you. But, I brush this off and let her know what she says doesn't not affect me emotionally even if it does, I dont tell her this.

    Because I want to stay in power and dominate. She might be trying to make me feel bad or something.

    An example is, I kept playing with her on a physical level and at one point she called me a "f'ing tease," now I heard this and so I completed her orgasm for her through fingering her at the time. Now, she stated, "that she called me a "fucking tease," because in her past relationship the guy called her a "f'ing tease," and she gave into sex with him when she didn't want to at the time until she got called a tease and to prove it she had sex. Now, I need the cold hard nitty gritty tactics and methods sort of similar to what this guy in her past relationship did to her.

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