Re: Long distance 'friend', realm of possibility?
Gaul, let's be honest here. This is one-itis, and there is an obsessive component to this. Personally, I don't think it's healthy and you should move on. That's just me laying it out there.
But, in direct answer to your question, yes, you can build serious attraction long distances over text. I have a situation right now that will illustrate this. I took a year off to backpack around the world. I in a social network called asmallworld.net. It's basically facebook but for professionals. Anyway, they have this great feature called the geolocator which shows where members are around the world. So whenever I visit a country I make friends using their Geolocator. It's great. But anyway, I was supposed to head to Poland. So, I found a hot chick on the geolocator and emailed her telling her I was coming and we should meet up, etc. I sent her my facebook link, etc. She friended me and we started talking. I ended up never meeting her because plans changed and I didn't go to poland.
This was nine months ago.
Where are we now? Serious serious serious sexual texting and emailing. Every now and then we video, but she's actually shy, but you can tell she really likes me. We are at a point, where she is beggging me to have sex with her. I wish I could show you the text history. I literally can tell her, meet me here and let's just have sex the whole time. Yesterday, I actually said, "It's interesting, that I can f*ck you whenever I want and i never met you." she responded, "lol, yup". I plan on meeting her soon once she figures out her passport situation.
How did this happen? It helped that I have a badass facebook page (I have written about facebook game previously). But more importantly, I built attraction over time, via emails and texts. The key is to keep it funny, and keep it sexual. If i look at the history, i think 90% of what we talk about has something to do with sex. I always try to bring up sex if we were talking about dog poo. Keep it funny, confident and sexual.
At one point in the summer, I ahd this jealous girlfriend and she went into my facebook and de-friended a bunch of girls that were making nice comments about me (she was crazy). But anyway, this polish girl was one of them, and I forgot about her. A few months later after I dumped the crazy girl, she messages me and was like, hey why did you defriend me. Did i do something wrong?
and i explained everything to her. recently the polish girl said, "i must really want you if you dissed me by defriending me, and I am going after you"
It's very pwowerful sh*it. That's all I do. cocky funny, keep it sexual.
I suspect your interaction with the current target is not sexual. That's a key ingredient.
The world is your matrix. You control the strings.