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    Perez91 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Need Advice: K-Closed asked on date got weird response

    Ok. So I met this girl at a bar last weekend and we talked for 20 minutes. When she was leaving I got her number and kissed her. She left her scarf and came back in again and kissed me a second time. The next day she texted me and after a brief exchange of 2 texts I asked her out for drinks to which she responded that she had recently gotten a job and could not drink on a weekday. I told her that was too bad and left it at that.

    Today, I asked her out for dinner on Thursday night or Saturday night. This was my text and her response:

    Me: Hey cutie how was your first week at work? Wondering if you wanted to go out to dinner on thursday night after work or saturday night?
    Her: Like a date? Id be down to hang out as friends...but you should know that I recently started seeing someone.


    I don't know how to respond or how to proceed. I don't want to get friendzoned but I also feel like I have a decent shot at this girl, if I disregard this "someone."

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    blazeboy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need Advice: K-Closed asked on date got weird response

    I think you respond..."Of course just as friends, not a date. Can't a guy just invite a cool chick to grab a bite to eat without it being a date?! Meet me at xxx ..."

    Then make your move son...
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    Perez91 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need Advice: K-Closed asked on date got weird response

    Quote Originally Posted by blazeboy View Post
    I think you respond..."Of course just as friends, not a date. Can't a guy just invite a cool chick to grab a bite to eat without it being a date?! Meet me at xxx ..."

    Then make your move son...
    Thanks so much for the quick response! I messaged her like you said and she responded within a minute: Haha just didnt want mixed messages! Yeah I think that works!


    Just a quick question for anyone: since its "not a date" do I still have to pay for her? And I'm guessing that making my move would just entail me being confident, KINO, NEGs, flirting, etc. making her have a good time?

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    Flyboy86 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need Advice: K-Closed asked on date got weird response

    I would definitely NOT pay since it is under the pretense of not being a date. Some would argue don't pay even if this was a date and only pay after you have F closed.


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