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    Question Got number of beautiful older woman, how do I not mess this up?

    Hey guys

    I'm new to the forum, as well as the "Game" in general. I'm a late bloomer, and not super experienced, but I'm getting there.

    Got a beautiful woman's number while waiting in line for an art event. She's about 10 years older than me. I'm 24, she's mid 30's. We had a brief, light exchange in the line, we exchanged numbers (under the pretext of artistic collaboration), and that was that. She texted me minutes after getting my number to tell me it was great to meet me, and to enjoy the art exhibit.

    I want this woman to take me seriously as a potential boyfriend/date/whatever. I'm 24 and currently just an intern. I don't have a lot of money. She's likely more: 1) confident, sure of herself 2) financially independent 3) more experienced sexually and in general terms.

    I made my intentions clear from the beginning. I think women her age appreciate the no-BS approach.

    TEXTS BETWEEN US FOR THOSE WHO WANT TO ANALYZE:

    Me: Hey ####, it's ####. Save this number to your phone instead. I don't have a texting plan on the other.

    Me: This is kind of a forward question, but are you single? I'd like to get coffee with you sometime. Yeah I'm pretty blunt.

    Her: Thanks. I am single. Bluntness is never taken for granted. tea would be nice. I leave Monday until the 9th. Any day after that.

    Me: I had a feeling you'd appreciate the bluntness, haha. When do you get off work during the week?

    Her: I have a show on the 11...the 12 I'm off..Tuesday
    So yeah. The next day I sent her these series of texts:

    Me: You free at 9pm on Monday? We'll have a couple of drinks at (COCKTAIL LOUNGE).
    Her: Cool
    Me: Cool. 9pm, Monday the 11th. Over-priced cocktails. Hell yeah. << Major FAIL on my part. Not a good way to show confidence in my own decision-making.
    Her: Lol
    Her: I'm not a big drinker...so we can go to a cafe instead.. If u prefer.
    Me: We'll stick with (COCKTAIL LOUNGE) for now.. since we've got a week there's always time to find something better.. You live in Manhattan or Brooklyn?
    Her: Both
    Her: Why?
    Me: Because I'm trying to stalk you. << Took a risk humor-wise
    Me: Lol. Kidding. Just wanted to make sure the location is convenient for you.
    Her: Lol
    Her: Ill be around (ADDRESS)
    Her: I saw your work... Very nice
    Me: Gracias! Send me a link to your stuff too.
    Her: I'm redoing my website...took it down..Google me...just a little actress
    Me: I watched your reel. Oh my dayum. You're talented!
    Me: I like the part where you slap some dude upside the head.
    Me: I actually took theater arts in high school. The teacher trolled me and my buddy and made us perform the most corny, out of date skit about "getting bettys" at a high school. I had to say such great lines as "The world is our oyster". It was bad. Try saying that goofiness with a straight face. << try to relate to her by telling a story from my past
    Her: Lol!! That's funny!
    Her: Thanks I have to update it.
    This was over a day ago. I'm backing off for now because she's busy and away on some kind of trip, but should I continue to text and push the envelope or just chill til we go out?

    If anybody wants to give me some pointers, I would be very appreciative. I'm not obsessed with this woman or super invested, but she is gorgeous and I'd like to make the most of this and not screw it up with my weirdness/lack of experience.

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    Default Re: Got number of beautiful older woman, how do I not mess this up?

    She's likely more: 1) confident, sure of herself 2) financially independent 3) more experienced sexually and in general terms.
    which si what you want nothing worse than someone who is none of these imo

    Me: This is kind of a forward question, but are you single? I'd like to get coffee with you sometime. Yeah I'm pretty blunt.

    Her: Thanks. I am single. Bluntness is never taken for granted. tea would be nice. I leave Monday until the 9th. Any day after that.
    i am blessed to see this direct game work out over text

    Me: Lol. Kidding. Just wanted to make sure the location is convenient for you.
    don't say this, if you do it sure - i try and meet halfway if it's possible, but yeah

    Me: I watched your reel. Oh my dayum. You're talented!
    Me: I like the part where you slap some dude upside the head.
    Me: I actually took theater arts in high school. The teacher trolled me and my buddy and made us perform the most corny, out of date skit about "getting bettys" at a high school. I had to say such great lines as "The world is our oyster". It was bad. Try saying that goofiness with a straight face. << try to relate to her by telling a story from my past
    i get the feel that is something you wanna more talk about in person than over text

    my advice chill for now and send her a text around 945-11pm the night before the date saying something interesting, don't confirm the date with her, expect her to be there seeing as you already set the date in stone prior

    good job (y)


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