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    bookofheelai is offline PUA in Training
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    Default How Do I Respond to this? Girl Who Introduces Her Boyfriend As "Friend".

    Need advice on this situation:

    She is a someone I work with. Actually like this girl as I wouldn't mind dating her. However, she definitely playing some games. We've hung out a few times: going to movies, bars, and going out. Figured I have a chance to get her with all the flirting we do at work.

    I went to the club with another coworker friend to meet her up . I was hoping this would be the night to make my move, only to find it this is the night I find her she has a boyfriend (or so she says).

    Tried to be aggressive: tried to come up on her on the dance floor, hoping to escalate things, but it was obvious she would keep stepping away from me. I tried two or three more times and came to the conclusion that somethings up. Eventually, she introduced him to both of us as a "friend".

    I'll get to the point: I don't think this girl knows what she wants. She keeps playing games- introducing her boyfriend a "friend." Bet her "boyfriend" is quite pissed, but thats not my problem. Should I just give up move on to another girl, or continue to poke around?

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    Default Re: How Do I Respond to this? Girl Who Introduces Her Boyfriend As "Friend"

    First of all, way to much attention this girl is getting. Three dudes all up in her business. You going up to her several times. She clearly is attracted to you. My advice is, don't give up, but play it cool. Step back. Have fun flirty time with her at work - cocky, funny, flirty. But then pull back.. use push-pull on her. Ignore some messages, etc... Have her pursue you not the other way around, esp since there are early signs she is into you.
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    Default Re: How Do I Respond to this? Girl Who Introduces Her Boyfriend As "Friend"

    I would just ignore her for a bit. Then try again with an asshole mentality and then ignore her a bit more. That's just me though.
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

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