Re: How can I act like i'm not afraid to lose her, without losing her?
If you're so attached to the outcome you'll probably end with negative results homie. You should learn how to be dependant on only yourself for good emotions, not attached to circumstance you don't ultimately have control over. In conclusion, stop being a chode and understand that there are plenty of girls just like her and if you believe otherwise, you have more problems than a "technique" will help you with.
Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.
If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.