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    Default Girl i met over dating site

    Hello PUA people During last few days i met girl on some dating site and since then we chatting every day. We chat over skype and using cam ofc, so i can see that we creating something. But there is problem, like always we are 200km away from each other (not big problem) and she has LTR of 6.5 years. What i can see for now she giving me lots of IOI, and i never mentioning her BF nor she. Sometime he calls her and she smiles me over cam and talking with him. Also i used future projections on her, and she accepted it, she say that she likes it ... i thinking that after such long time with her BF, that things arent ok, she spent so much time with me when she is online. I need advice from you guys, what to do next
    I asked her to come visiting me, to stay over weekend, but she say that she cant find story for her parents and BF. Also she asked me what i m thinking about her, cause she doing this behind her BF back, and i said that is ok for me, that we made great connection. Everytime i use future projection i talking about sex also, she agree and sometimes give me details ...

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    Default Re: Girl i met over dating site

    You have to translate it to the real world before you can be positive about anything. Perhaps she's just looking for the thrill of cheating without actually doing it. Arrange a meetup, if she agrees then you're golden; if not, she's just using you as a cheap thrill.

    Also, I'm certain someone on here is going to tell you to use a BF destroyer technique, but that won't work in this scenario since the BF doesn't seem to be the cause of any resistance. If she does start saying she can't because of the BF, then the BF destroyer techniques could become useful.

    Maybe try a meetup half way or something. Perhaps an overnight visit is too much right now. Also, how old is she. If she's worried about her parents I assume she's pretty young.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Girl i met over dating site

    She is 22. I know about BF destroyer technique, so i will use it if need it . My goal is that she come to my place, on my play ground, so i can seduce her faster. But if she want to meet me at her place, i will go. Every morning she send me sms in which she state that she is thinking about me

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    Default Re: Girl i met over dating site

    I know exactly what you're trying to do. The problem is this isn't real life, it's digital. You're at risk of skipping the comfort stage and if you do that this will never be more than a digital relationship.
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    Default Re: Girl i met over dating site

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    I know exactly what you're trying to do. The problem is this isn't real life, it's digital. You're at risk of skipping the comfort stage and if you do that this will never be more than a digital relationship.

    Thats why i m afraid, i dont want loose her, but i dont want to be needy!She has BF, and i need to bypass that and get date with her in reality ... She is somewhere HB 8 i think, always with smile. I tease her a lot , and she like it ...


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