Hey Guys – I’m going to try to keep this as short as possible. I met the girl of my dreams, she’s in love with me, we want to get married, just got engaged and she recently moved in with me.
Only one problem she has major LSE and I found out that she couldn’t keep her legs closed in college her freshman year. She’s had 30+ partners I’m about double that. She’s 22, I’m 33.
I’m a full Alpha, not an afc by any means. I don’t have a problem with her having a sexual history, bigger d1cks, whatever. I have a problem with the lack of SE it takes for a girl to let herself get used continuously with no ounce of self respect for herself or her body. This girl is a solid HB10 (with baggage maybe 8.5/9) and swears up and down she’s in love with me and only wants us to be together.
She does the little lies and half truths, has made mistakes with guys in the past with being too friendly while we were together, still works the bar in a stripclub but is changing her schedule and job to spend more time together (her idea).
My issue with her is I’m no longer attracted to her bc of her past, and some of the things she’s done since we’ve been together and don’t feel she’s marriage or relationship material. I may need to just get a Woman from another country I hate Western Women. There all flat out hoes, at least 99% anyway.
Anyway to salvage this? Can’t get her being used out of my head. Relationship is likely toast even though were crazy about eachother.
How do I rebuild attraction for her, trust (since she’s ruined it) between us, how can I ever respect her. Maybe I’m just old fashioned, it’s ridiculous these days to expect a Woman to respect herself and not ho it up in the US anyway. You US girls are going to have REAL hard time finding morons to marry you. This girl looks like she walked off a Victorias Secret mag or Weird Science, like I did some experiment to manifest the perfect female image. And she swears she’s in love with me.
Also, apparently she never had anything outside of a clitoral orgasm until she met me. I’ve got her having multiples regularly from EVERY spot. How on Earth can a female have 30 partners and never get a real O.
She’s about to be toast anyway but though I would reach out to the pro’s on this one. I’m normally a PUA and thought this was the one. I don’t care about womens past when their just FB but this is different. Let me know if you guys want more info. Just want to know if where I went wrong and how.