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Thread: Chick accepted my friend request after two months.

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    Default Chick accepted my friend request after two months.

    I had built some attraction and was gaining some report with this HB7.5 back in November and December of last year when she suddenly disappeared. She gave no notice at work and just moved back to the city she was from.I did not get her phone number even though she opened the door to it once because I was trying not to be too aggressive, I found her on Facebook and sent her a message and a friend request in December today she accepted it but did not message me. Should I try messaging her again or not?

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    Default Old News

    It's been two months. You had something with her, and it ended. She lost her chance to get somewhere with you. Move on, and don't worry about her. There are plenty more fish out there in the sea.
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    Default Re: Chick accepted my friend request after two months.

    Do you want to message her? Yes? Then what's stopping you? At worst she doesn't message you back.

    But Swagman also has a point. When in doubt, move on.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Chick accepted my friend request after two months.

    I get the feeling she hadnt been to her facebook page in awhile.

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    Default Excuses, Excuses

    If that is the reason she has not accepted your friend request, don't make it a reason to message her. If she is still interested in you, she will initiate the first conversation.

    I do like Duke's post though. Sort of a "nothing to lose" philosophy that everyone should have. Heck, I just did it with a text, and I won out with it.

    In the end, my opinions are my opinions, and there are many other opinions on this site. If you want to message her just for the heck of it and see where it goes, do it. I'm just saying that if I was in your shoes, I wouldn't even bother with it.
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