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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    @inter bit rude to call out people like that and then post a response that is wrong. Texting is important, it isn't always necessary to be good at texting but it can be a massive part of game, for example you might be in a nightclub and n close very quickly cus u can't talk that much or something, so you might not have built that much attraction. Therefore in the morning if you text her 'hey, wassup?' or something equally boring you might not get a response. However if you are good at texting and can be interesting and original you might be able to pull a date out of this. I do this a lot, I n close quickly and frequently on a night out and then do a lot of texting and get a lot of dates. So like Hyp said , check out the texting guides, probably help you out a lot.

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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    @linking

    your texting I'm fucking!

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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    @inter lmao no need to act the big man here, believe me I'm farking plenty. I was just trying to help you out, if ya wana be a dick then go ahead.....no skin off my nose

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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    @ linking haha dude, I didn't even kno it posted ... I was editing it and clicked submit. Im just messing man.were all in this together. I just see so many posts of "If I only toted her this, I would of gotten her" or "IF I wouldn't of sent her those txts she would of agreed to a 2nd date"...... Its all BS.

    Ya you can be funny txting and it may come off too try hard and this and that, but the only way to do it is to BUILD ATTRACTION in person. If she likes you , move quickly with her and your golden..... But if it works for ya all the better. Ive seen my friends get pummeled after exchanging hundreds of txts with girls only to have the girl not want to meet up. Or flake on dates, or lose interest.

    Guys give up their mystery by txting too much. this isn't the movie "you've got mail" this is real life...

    but heym to each their own... I txt but nowadays keep it short and to the point. Makes sense huh? If she cares enough to see me she'll agree to meet up. If she doesn't, then I shouldn't waste my time txting her right???........ what happens to most guys is that they fall in "love" with all the effort their exerting while txting a girl... They think they know a girl and build her in their heads cause of all the txts they've exchanged. They Idealize who they think she is. they think they love her, when in reality all they've done is txt.

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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    Fair enough, I see your point but basically being good at texting adds another aspect to your game. Like I said if its hard to build attraction or even if you do in a nightclub they are often drunk and you need that little bit extra the next day to get the D2. And yes a lot of guys do fall in love or whatever by texting too much, however I'm a PUA this shit ain't going to happen to me lol. But like you said each to your own, but seriously check out the guides on here they are really good

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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    Yes inter is basically correct. Some guys like to work fast and do everything in person. Others have busy lives and txt helps out alot. Its like if u only have time to send a txt cuz u cant see her for a few days, u might as well excell at it lol.

    But yeah, most guys live and die by a texting flirter. Way afc. If she wont meet up guys, dont get invested too much. She may just enjoy the attention!
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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    Ah, okay, so um... can we come back to my topic? Let me be clear - texting or not, what should my next step be? I know she bartends at a local bar on a certain day of the week (she told me herself). Should I show up there, or would that be too obvious and a shameless display of interest (aka, desperation)?

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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    now, even though lockdown locked this down lmao, here comes my two cents.

    @inter. linking knows what hes talking about, and if your smart you will listen. now i agree with just about everything your saying because im the same way, id say about seventy percent of the girls i game i dont even exchange numbers with for many reasons, partly because she loses interest and flakes, but mostly because i lose interest. i also rarely text, i usually call. however i can admit that this is a flaw in my game that i need to work on, not because its a necessity, but because it can be extremely benneficial

    @linking. good point about needing a little bit the extra day.

    @ lockdown. "she may just enjoy the attention" well fucking said lmao, cuz seriously guys thats the dead truth. not only do girls feel secure when they have a shitload of options texting them every day, but is also a form of social proof that i dont fully understand lol.

    @ shortandgoofy. sorry about continueing on with the arguement, and as for your question, how comfortable are you with direct game?
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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    Never tried direct game before. I am not exactly good looking, which is probably a reason why I have always been shy of the direct game.

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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    But yeah, most guys live and die by a texting flirter. Way afc. If she wont meet up guys, dont get invested too much. She may just enjoy the attention!

    Gold this is very true, I realized after being turned down by texting too much can and will bring the conversation to a dull and boring interaction, trust me. What I do not is I call, even if its just for a 1 minute conversation. That 1 minute conversation could of been a 30 minute text.

    If you call the girl you get more chances because be realistic. A Hot smoking girl would rather get to hear a quick story on the phone rather then text for 10- 30min about a simple thing. She would lose interest on the spot. Calling gets you laid, bud.


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