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Thread: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    Quote Originally Posted by shortandgoofy View Post
    Never tried direct game before. I am not exactly good looking, which is probably a reason why I have always been shy of the direct game.
    If you think your looks matter they will. I'm a 100% sure you've seen an uglier person then you with an attractive girl. Why ? Cause the guy isn't stuck up to his looks, what girls look for and is hard wired to their brain is an alpha male (A man who stands out basically) Looks is just a bonus.

    Once I had this huge pimple in my chin (Came back lol still got it now) I was kind of embarrassed about it but decided to open a girl, went great got her number and the later interactions are great.

    Basically if your looks bother you, try to be attractive in other ways and most importantly build SELF CONFIDENT and don't build SELF-SHAME. Because if you think you look bad you're building self shame. Think about it, have fun.

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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    Great bitch shield to use, however I need some help deciphering a series of messages I received when using this via facebook:
    JR (aka bitch shield up); Me:
    Me: Hey I figured that someone of your attractiveness would be quick to forget someone. But you know, looks can be deceiving, so I seceded to give you the benefit of the doubt. Have a nice day.
    JR: Forget someone? You make me sound like a lovely person. Thanks *thumbs up*
    Me:So you're not usually like this?
    JR: Like what?
    Me: Someone who is forgetful
    JR: I have a diary, I am never forgetful.
    Me: I doubt it. I might forgive you
    JR: Forgive me for what? I haven't done anything?
    Me: Of course you did. For someone who isn't forgetful, you never replied.
    JR: I don't send messages, I am the worst replier ever. Ask anyone I know. I hate texting and I'm too busy. If someone needs me they will call me.
    Me: You're sending messages now though? Lol, you're a strange one, but you can make up for it.
    JR: Because you're practically yelling at me!
    Me: Lol, because I haven't put in 'lol's' or emoticons at the end of every sentence doesn't imply I'm yelling at you. Plus, I'd be typing in CAPS if I wanted to yell. Makes sense right?
    Me: Ooops, I mean lol lol lol
    ......and now silence....

    Did I do something wrong? I know she mentioned she's too busy to reply and would rather someone call her, I was waiting for her for her to reply to my 'well you can make it up to me' to drop the 'you should give me your number' line...but I'd appreciate some advice

    Cheers.

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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    You came off as needy, confrontational, and insensitive during that conversation. She was probably confused and angered by what she read, not impressed. If I were you I'd drop contact at once and not think of talking to this girl again.

    Also, this thread is two years old. Best to let it die.

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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    Quote Originally Posted by ShortStuff View Post
    You came off as needy, confrontational, and insensitive during that conversation. She was probably confused and angered by what she read, not impressed. If I were you I'd drop contact at once and not think of talking to this girl again.

    Also, this thread is two years old. Best to let it die.
    Advice taken, but what would/could I say different?

    I didn't want to come across as too needy or submissive...what would you have done?

    And yes the thread is two years old, and I've only just discovered this site. So figured I'd join up and make good use of it.

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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    Quote Originally Posted by Randomlyfunny View Post
    Advice taken, but what would/could I say different?
    I have a "friend" who I almost (and at the time decided not to) de-LJBF. This friend, being at turns either busy or emotionally messed up, has a tendency to not text back or text back way too late, or not return calls, which seems to have worsened somewhat after I almost took the cat out of the bag.

    So how do I respond to this situation? I respond by not responding to it. I try contacting her again later, when I feel like it, with whatever thought reminded me of her or with whatever plans I think would be fun. In all the time between, I pursue other options or stuff I need/want to busy myself with. This usually happens over the course of a week to two weeks. If in the same amount of time she hasn't responded back, I assume she's uninterested or just plain too busy and find other things/people to try and do.

    There's a sentiment in earlier messages that you shouldn't be a doormat. I agree, but I think the time to demonstrate that is if she's actually doing something bratty, princessly, or otherwise shit testing you. What's more, if you find something else to be occupied with, you're already not putting up with unreasonably unresponsive crap, should it be there - you've got more important things to worry about, and you're demonstrating that through your actions.

    What qualifies for something you'd be a doormat to accept? Not contacting you when she's made no promises, agreements, or has not made clear any strong feelings for you - or when she may have very legitimate reasons for not contacting you - doesn't fall into this category. But if her response time or other behaviors really are unreasonable, simply bring up that she said x, and now she's doing not x - and that you don't like it. Don't be passive-aggressive, just firm and straightforward.

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    Default Re: What should I do when she doesn't text me back?

    Awesome advice. I will take that on-board. Cheers


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