Ok I was ridiculously overweight till recently so i never even tried and now Ive lost all that weight I feel more confident to go find a girl.
Ive read the Mystery Method, but I have 2 serious issues:
1. Where do I start the newbie drill? Ok in manchester there are night clubs, which play loud music and a majority of the girls just dont want to be hit on by ANY guy. There seems to be 90 - 10 men to women ratio, so the few that do like getting hit on already get sarged by the more experienced guys and Im not into that kind of music or dancing so night clubs seem a total waste of time.
The other places are pubs, totally quiet but wayyy to few people generally in groups, and even starting a conversation with a group in a setting like this automatically weirds out the group like "who is this guy?" and standard openers get the reaction "wtf is he talking about" within the opener question.
2. Have you had any guys that were awkward virgins at my age that changed it all?
Im just looking for one girl. Im not so ambitious to become a pua, I just want an attractive girl for a girlfriend