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Thread: How do you win the girl in a conversation of other guys

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    Question How do you win the girl in a conversation of other guys

    So this has happened to me many times, especially with one HB10, at her work. I approached her, but many other interruptions kicked in. Other guys would come and talk to her, asking questions, while other girls would come and try to talk to her. It is impossible to get her isolated, and is there anything i can do during the conversation for her to have higher interest in me?

    So I have some kind of relationship between her, i say hi and bye to her, tease her whenever i can (usually on something she is wearing), and there was one day where i talked to her for about 20 mins, which was nothing more than a casual conversation, 100% friendzoned (i didn't know PUA at this time) <- was very lucky to catch her during lunch, but i totally farked it up. I didn't do bad, i just didn't build nothing but rapport.

    Moving on,

    I remember a moment where i was talking to her for like 30 secs, where another guy came in and literally took over. He asked her a question, then just started talking to her.

    I know you guys are gonna say i have to isolate her, but it is nearly impossible because i can't just come up to her and say "give me your number, or lets meet at X" So is there a specific behavior i should show, or something i should say to flip the switch?

    ALL HELP IS APPRECIATED... THANKS PLAYA'S!

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    Default Re: How do you win the girl in a conversation of other guys

    The key to dealing with groups or distractions/obstacles is to address them directly. If a guy comes up to her and starts talking to her, you shouldstart talking to him and work your shit on him.
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    Default Re: How do you win the girl in a conversation of other guys

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    The key to dealing with groups or distractions/obstacles is to address them directly. If a guy comes up to her and starts talking to her, you shouldstart talking to him and work your sh1t on him.
    Hm I like this. What do you mean by "you should start talking to him and work your sh1t on him"? Do you mean I should point out how he interupted the conversation and get him in the conversation? If i do this, he will take it over and it went from a me to her to him to her conversation

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    Default Re: How do you win the girl in a conversation of other guys

    No, I mean make him talk to you instead of him talking to her. It comes from the whole Mystery Method ideology that "the leader of men is the leader of women." If you control the group then you control the woman.

    You don't want to call him out on interrupting you because that makes you look weak and insecure.
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    Default Re: How do you win the girl in a conversation of other guys

    Answer to "how do I win the girl with other dudes in the convo": is stop trying to win her from them. When a dude shows up stop treating it like he is a disruption to the you/her two set. Instead treat it like a you/him/her three set and welcome him in to the conversation on your terms. Get him to engage on whatever you were chatting her about (if he resists keep encouraging him to tease her about whatever it is you've been teasing her about) and also feel free to use light negs on him if you want to go uber AMOG.
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