I would REALLY appreciate a quick reply on this one as it's time-sensitive.
Asked this girl out for drinks 3 days ago via text for 9pm TONIGHT. She said yes, and I told her we could meet near her place (Brooklyn), and that I'd let her know where by Thursday (yesterday), which I did. I asked her if we could meet 30 mins later as I get off work late and have to commute to another borough, and she has not replied yet. Now I'm confused. I don't know whether to text her again (obviously she saw the text and has chose to not reply or delay reply) or just show up at the normal agreed upon time of 9. Or just not show up at all?
First text of the day:
NO REPLY. umm. wut. Did I say something wrong here? Sure my texts were a bit long, but nothing that warrants NO REPLY.Me: Ever heard of ###? ### Ave corner of ### street. Sound good? 7:29 PM
Her: Yeah, I think I've been there before. In Williamsburg? 8:11 PM
Me: Yes'm 8:13 PM < Sent this while walking after work, was busy
Me: Buddy recommended it to me.. if it's too crowded I have a backup plan. I'm always prepared. 9:59 PM < get home and can send longer text now
Me: By the way can we meet at 9:30 instead? Gotta make the pilgrimage to Brooklyn and I don't get off til 8 10:00 PM
She has done this before, where I'll send her a text in the evening and she doesn't reply either to late the next day or not at all (until I re-initiate). But there have been obvious IOI (she's texted me first before on a couple of occasions this week).
So what do I do here?