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    Dave-o is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default She's scared of getting heart broken

    One of my mates told me that she was struggling dating a guy that she had met recently. She told me that she thought that things were going well but that she was scared of being hurt by him because she'd had her heart broken in the past too many times.

    Now, firstly, why is she telling me all this? Is it strictly as she trusts me? Or does she want to see what can happen with me? I used to like her so maybe I have a chance but hmmm.... if she isn't in to relationships then is she worth the hassle?

    Secondly, what happens if you are in the situation of being the guy dating a woman who is scared of getting deep because of past problems with relationships? Is there a way to get around it? Or is it just a problem waiting to rear it's head.

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    Default Re: Scared of getting heart broken

    Sorry mate, but it sounds like you've been friendzoned. She's using you to gain sympathy. I'm not sure what kind of history you guys have but, I'd probably say that it would be more work than its worth playing catch-up on this one.

    In answer to your second question, I'd say that it could potentially be a problem. In this case, you've got to be understanding. Be very clear in your intentions- the last thing you want to do is hurt her. If your only in it for sex, she needs to know about that from the beginning. Remember, you can still be nice and not be a 'nice-guy'.

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    Default Re: Scared of getting heart broken

    Well it depends, is she still struggling with this guy? or is it a past event? If she brings up that kind of topic it really depends on the current standing of said relationship. I currently have a girl who told me her boyfriend cheated on her and now they're broken up, she brought it up once to let me know and hasn't mentioned it since. As long as she isn't making a habit of telling you her problems she's probably just bringing up the topic of relationship. As for your last question, it's only a problem if you let it become a problem. very vague, but I think you know what i mean. Good luck.
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