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    Default Being called a player ?

    Okay so I meet this girl on facebook and for a while she seems to be playing hard to get with me. She's been posting a bunch of quotes on her wall like. ''F**** bitches and players, keep it real'' and ''If it was meant to be then it is'' Stuff like that.

    I'm not reacting to those but I feel that I'm missing something to not get considered as a player. Because even her texts gone sorta cold. Because we've sexted before

    What I'm wondering is.. Should I make something clear ? Or could I say something for future girls to not think I'm a player ? Or do they like players?.. I'm really mixed up. Help me out fellow forum :3

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    Default Re: Being called a player ?

    Flip the script on her...

    Say something like, "Well, if you're gonna label me a 'player' then you're totally a 'playette'... I can tell! I bet you're an EXPERT at playing games... "

    Or something to that effect.

    Usually calling a girl out like that will get her to start trying to qualify herself to you & explain that she's NOT a "playette".



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    Default Re: Being called a player ?

    In my experience, girls and guys will both call you a player if they know your good with girls.......however as long as you don't have any of the bad 'player' attributes eg. Lying, cheating, leading girls on etc. then it shouldn't have a bad effect on you. If I ever get called a player and it's obv meant in a bad way I just shrug it off lol

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    Default Re: Being called a player ?

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Flip the script on her...

    Say something like, "Well, if you're gonna label me a 'player' then you're totally a 'playette'... I can tell! I bet you're an EXPERT at playing games... "

    Or something to that effect.

    Usually calling a girl out like that will get her to start trying to qualify herself to you & explain that she's NOT a "playette".

    My new saying is "When in doubt, call her out!"

    But in this case, just ignore it.
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    Default Re: Being called a player ?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    My new saying is "When in doubt, call her out!"

    But in this case, just ignore it.
    Mostly that's what I'm doing ignoring that statement, cause she didn't call me out at all. But when we were flirting via text I did call her out in a way I told her ''Are you playing with me ?'' Any more tips while we're in this conversation.

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    Default Re: Being called a player ?

    Honestly, there's no other tips to give in this situation other than just ignore that shit. She's attention seeking and you're not going to give her the attention she's looking for.
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    Default Re: Being called a player ?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Honestly, there's no other tips to give in this situation other than just ignore that sh1t. She's attention seeking and you're not going to give her the attention she's looking for.
    Noticed , I hardly even give her compliments unless I get IoI's. She's playing hard to get and its making me laugh, hihihi

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    Default Re: Being called a player ?

    I personally would not take any type of little silly games. Don't play any of her silly games. If she is playing hard to get and you see that what you have with her it's not moving forward, leave her. Well that's what I would do. i am kind of very straight to the point. Everybody has a different way


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