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    Exclamation Need help With DHV with Loud Friends

    Hey guys

    How do you deal with someone in your group who constantly talks (tells stories, information, etc) and never gives anyone else room to speak, say opinions, provide your own story, etc. I have a few friends who are like that and I can't avoid the situation. It's really getting to me because it brings my energy and mood down when I have to stand there for an hour saying "mmhmmm" "oh, right" etc because the dude talking just goes on and on and on and never lets any one else speak, never asks any questions, never pauses. These guys speak well with lots of energy but they just drone on and on and it makes me feel like I'm engulfed by them.
    Please help with any advice! Thxn

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    Default Re: Need help With DHV with Loud Friends

    Read up on amog and how to amog other people out.
    Amog stands for alpha male of the group, and there are looooooooaaaaads of threads and information about how to do it. But it mainly comes from inner game and power

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    Default Re: Need help With DHV with Loud Friends

    Quote Originally Posted by Big Shawn View Post
    Read up on amog and how to amog other people out.
    Amog stands for alpha male of the group, and there are looooooooaaaaads of threads and information about how to do it. But it mainly comes from inner game and power
    Ok I will read up on it, thanks. In the meantime, how about you tell me what things YOU would do in the situation I mentioned above.

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    Default Re: Need help With DHV with Loud Friends

    There are two ways to go about this. If you are genuinely friends with this AMOG, then hang out and listen to the stories as long as you're not gaming. If you are gaming, this guy should not be a part of your group at the time as he will only hurt your chances of picking up. Go solo gaming if you must, but really try to avoid running game with this guy around. Just hanging out is fine obviously.

    If this is a guy you've just met or someone who has come into your group to try to run game, you need to out AMOG him sooner rather than later. Introduce yourself, be friendly, and if he tries to start gaming your target, wait for him to say something stupid (they almost always do), and punk him on it. Usually works, but this is a skill that takes some practice and is more complicated than what I've just described.

    Hope that helped.

    -amazingJay

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    Default Re: Need help With DHV with Loud Friends

    That's good stuff. I've been out with him at clubs before and I'll be gaming a bird when he will just walk up and instead of wingmanning, just hijack the convo. Not a good pick up buddy, but I can't avoid him sometimes at house parties, clubs, etc. It just really hard even to out AMOG him since as soon as you start talking he will talk louder over you and cut you off straight away. And I've met other guys like him which is why it's been p1ssin me off because I haven't known what to do except to stand around listening to him like a chump

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    Default Re: Need help With DHV with Loud Friends

    That's a tough situation you're in there honestly. It sounds as if it would be way too difficult to out AMOG this guy. Personally, if I were in your situation, gaming a girl and my friend came over and started hijacking my conversation, I would probably say and do the following:
    1. Be friendly with the AMOG, introduce your girl.

    2a. If there are other friends in your group, get the girl isolated from the AMOG (get a drink, go dance, go tell a crazy story, whatever) asap, and let him instead talk to your other friends while you game.

    2b. If there aren't, hopefully you know some other people in the club, say 'hey ........ is here, let's go over and talk to them'. All three of you go to these friends. Talk a little and then, like above, isolate the girl.

    Basically you need to pull your target out of the unfavorable situation so you can game properly.


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