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    Default Was this a test - and did I do the right thing?

    Hey guys,

    So a few of you may have guessed that I talk to a lot of girls - but seem to struggle actually getting any closure.

    One of these chicks Ive known for a while - Ive made some chump attempts which culminated in me asking her out with her saying she didnt know (good friends with a lot of her mates etc).

    So recently we have been chatting (no attempts on my part just lots of games and fun).

    Today i used a pancake day opener for a bit of fun: via text it went like : Come and make me pancakes?

    She responds with: I'm in a lectureeeee....

    I play along with: Sneak out.

    her: Impossible

    Me: Impossible isnt part of my vocab

    her (she thens proceeds to bombard me with messages):
    You just typed it so it must be :P
    l will go out with you, remember you asked me in the car
    Ignore me
    I'm in a strange mood

    I reply: I just copied what your wrote - it still isnt in my vocabulary

    Her: Im boooooooooreed (like a little girl I know)

    Me: Making me some pancakes would give you something to do.

    her: I'm In ####. Slightly large trip just for Pancakes...

    me: pancakes + me = worth it

    I am still learning and I have made some progress but I feel that this was my first major shit test so Im curious as to whether or not I handles it correctly.

    Cheers for the continuing help fellas

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    Default Re: Was this a test - and did I do the right thing?

    I think you did fine. She seems interested enough. You just have to make her feel comfortable enough. Hide her from her inhibitions. My only complaint is that the thread is getting stale so learn to start new threads when you feel them just dragging. Other than that, good job.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Was this a test - and did I do the right thing?

    You're actually off to a good start.
    Don't keep pressing the "pancakes" topic though... that will run dry in no time.

    Instead continue with the flirty, fun vibe & try some other random statements. Things that don't have any real substance to them, but are just meant to increase curiosity & continue the interaction.

    Examples would be:
    "Hey, do your cookbooks have any recipes on how to cook a gazelle? I'm totally stumped at the moment."

    "I'm psychic- and I predict that at exactly this moment right now, YOU are reading this text. Pretty good huh? "

    "I'm typing this text very slowly, because I know you can't read fast... "

    "There may or may not be a briefcase full of money in my trunk... what do you think the odds are? "


    OR... a couple "flirty" examples:

    "If you were my baby sitter, I'd either be really bad or really good... depending on which would get me a spanking."

    "Aloha little princess! Your grass skirt & coconut bra had quite an effect on me... Even if it WAS just a dream. "

    "I'm gonna grab a shower, then I'll meet ya there... BTW, don't think about me being nekked & all wet!! "


    Don't try to have a full conversation over text messages. Use texting for setting up a meeting & for flirting. It gives you an opportunity to let her see your fun, silly side & can make her want to know more.



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    Default Re: Was this a test - and did I do the right thing?

    Thanks Batman and T-Mal - Sound advice as usual, I will continue to be intriguing etc whilst slowly bringing up the level of flirtatiousness.

    I am curious however as to your opinions on her bringing up the topic of me asking her out (although it wasnt really direct)

    - i kind of let her guess that I liked her with me just saying yup as a matter fact I do, then her response being that she isnt sure.

    It will be hard for us to meet up at the moment due to the distance, she has, however promised and repeatedly brought up the fact that she will be coming to see me whenever she is in town...Im not sure if I should be saying this (but bear with me as It felt right at the time) but i playfully said that I would make sure that Im as far away as possible etc etc.

    Thanks again guys! Much appreciated!

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    Default Re: Was this a test - and did I do the right thing?

    Hey guys.
    gotta question for you and I didn't fancy making a new thread,

    I just used T-mal's shower comment and it unfortunately didn't go down well.

    I adapted it slightly to -right Im going to grab a shower and then die on my bed for little bit...don't go thinking of me in the buff and all wet!!!

    with the simple response of ew.

    WOOOPS my bad - do I even need to attempt to recover from this or do i just let it fester for a while?

    cheers!


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