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    Desolrit is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Sorta f-closed a girl, now she's gone cold.

    I met this girl at new year's and didn't see her again until last week. We had an instant connection and I ended up sleeping with her. I was/am, a virgin however, and I could not get myself up. I tried bringing her to orgasm but we both kinda ran out of steam. She apologized and told me that she was tired, and I think once we stopped I remember her saying "Aren't you gonna do anything?" I don't recall what I said but sufficed to say, I was pretty damn drunk and we parted awkwardly the following day with her flatmate watching us.

    Since then I've invited her out once and her response was cold and short;

    Me: Hey ___!

    Her: Hey

    Me: I'm going out Saturday, come join me!

    Her: I won't be here for a few weeks, sorry

    Me: Oh well Have fun whatever you're doing

    It's a shame because I didn't tell her I was a virgin and I want her to know that I was just really drunk and nervous. However since she's not told me out right that she doesn't want to see me again, nor deleted me from FB, can I assume that there is a chance that I could try again in the future?

    I'm completely new to using game, though I've read about it for years, it's only in the last few months I've tried it when I've been out.

    Should I just next her?

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    Default Re: Sorta f-closed a girl, now she's gone cold.

    I'd keep her on the back burner & come back to that situation in a few weeks.
    But in the meantime, start gaming other girls & gain experience.

    Try out techniques & see what works / best suits your style.


    Also- I highly recommend getting a couple girls as "text buddies" to work on your interactions & flirting.

    Those same techniques CAN be applied to regular conversations.



    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: Sorta f-closed a girl, now she's gone cold.

    It can be rough man. I've had one night stands and lots of sex in long term relationships. When you are with a new girl it can be tough sometimes. Its awkward, its scary, and you are soo eager to impress. Being drunk makes it even tougher. I will say this. When it comes to frame control I can think of no better place to have it than the bedroom. Do your thing and do it well!! Obviously calibrate to the girl so that you can get her off but be confident and do your thing. It is critical on one night stands where the girl is really uncomfortable. She is looking to you for guidance.


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