Re: How to handle The do you love me question?
I agree with all of the above. Don't hold her out on what she wants to hear. She will only get annoyed and whether you do love her or not will not matter. She will just dump you anyways.
Be careful, though. I made a really terrible choice in my last relationship. I told my girlfriend that I loved her, EVERY SINGLE DAY for about six months. She didn't mind though, she thought that we had something special because I was the one guy that was nice to her. When I finally realized that I had only gotten into a relationship with her because I was so sick and tired of getting rejected all the time, I was stuck in a really big pickle that crashed and burned violently.
So before you do anything else, you should seriously sit down, figure out what kind of person you are, and figure out what kind of girl you want. If she falls into what you are looking for, then you got a winner. If not, then you need to reconsider the relationship you are in right now before you do anything really stupid.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X