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    trackster1 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default upcoming date help

    Hey guys I'm new here but i have been lurking every now and then, hopefully ya can help me out with this...
    I need to give some info first...
    I met this girl through work, we used to work together but now we work in different locations, i make her laugh and i tease her a lot, im now attracted to her. Anyway we hang out every now and then but never alone, always with her friend. So i invited her to a mutual Co workers engagement party and i told her as a date and she said yeah.

    Now when i go pick her up to go to the party should do all the chivalry things like open the door? Get her flowers? stuff like that?
    Its this Saturday

    I plan to flirt with her a lot during the party and then later pretend not to be interested, what do ya think?
    If ya need more info please let me know

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    Default Re: upcoming date help

    PART 2 PLEASE READ

    what i wrote above may not make sense since i typed all that on my phone lol,
    basically im looking for help from the fellas on what should i do to gain her attraction towards me.
    I felt she was attracted to me before but at times it didnt seem like it.
    im into her and want to know what you guys think if i should do when i pick her up at her house,..
    should i buy her flowers if so what kind? i feel like opening the door for her when she gets into my car.

    at the party i would like to flirt with her to show her interest but i dont wanna over do it.
    she knows me as a jokester,
    so what i plan on doing when i introduce her to my other friends at the party i would say something like, hey meet my girl
    just to see what she would say lol

    anyways what do the experts have to say about this?

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    Default Re: upcoming date help

    Hi,
    I'm not exactly an 'expert' on these forums, but I can probably help you out somewhat.
    The date you've described isn't something I would consider a date really, so no go on the flowers... As for the other stuff, it really doesn't matter and won't help you or hurt you either way.
    If you're the ironic/sarcastic type, you could play the 'date' angle sarcastically a little. You know, have her be your fake girlfriend for the night. If you have no idea what I'm talking about here, don't do this and play it straight.

    Anyway, you're main goal is interesting conversation with her to get her more interested in you than she seems now. If you need help with this there are a number of good threads on here covering that. Also, you definitely are going to to want to playfully flirt with her and tease her, so you don't run the risk of friendzoning.

    Another important thing you're going to want to do is interact with everyone else at the party. All the people there that you know, be friendly and make conversation with them. Any that you don't know, be friendly and get to know them. This should help build more interest.

    In short, I would treat something like this as more of a party or a social function than a date, and act accordingly.

    Finally, unless your party ends really late, you should be able to stop for coffee or ice-cream or some sh!t on the way home. Make it spontaneous, she should agree on that if you've built enough interest above. There's your real date. Good luck.

    -amazingJay

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    Default Re: upcoming date help

    yeah don't buy her anything and i mean zer0, shes not worth your time or money yet

    get physical touch happening aka kino, if you've asked her "as a date" and she was fine for it this is all the more reason to get in with the kino, if you're picking her up i'd start on the way from the front door to the car (hug first upon greet / arms linked walking to the car) - nothing inside the car apart from good music ie dance / trance or whatever you're into and if she challenges you on it stand your ground

    yeah that's pretty much it, don't focus on her alot, focus on your friends more than her, she's coming with you not you going with her

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    Default Re: upcoming date help

    thanks for the responses
    i will keep this in mind
    i would love to get more response if possible

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    Default Re: upcoming date help

    haha that's why you have to dedicate yourself to learning all this stuff, then eventually you'll know what to do and how to do it

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    trackster1 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: upcoming date help

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    haha that's why you have to dedicate yourself to learning all this stuff, then eventually you'll know what to do and how to do it
    should i open my car door for her?

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    Default Re: upcoming date help

    i don't think you need to it wont make any difference

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    Default Re: upcoming date help

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    i don't think you need to it wont make any difference
    this goes out to everyone,
    i was thinking about saying things like,
    when i meet her at her door to pick her up saying things like "you miss me?" (flirting around) to her

    and when i introduce her say "thats my girl" (in a joking manner, which i also think it would be flirting)

    what do you guys think
    and what do ya suggest?


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