I have a very close connection with a Private Dancer, at first I thought she was a Seductress and messed up a bit only getting mixed results but because I was using sexual innuendo and even though I was making huge strides I was still roadblocked. I'm an all or nothing person and this gal is the one I'd like to spend the rest of my life with. I hope I can get usable advice and not reasons I should forget the chase. I admit this woman most guys would say run, saying "you have no chance, why bother, too much still against you", but if there are any seasoned PUA Guru's out there willing to give their advice on this challenge I'd welcome it. I'm a large guy with an outgoing personality and been told I'm fun and charming and refuse to believe I can't get my dream girl. We are so close it hurts but she's due to retire this June and I'll loose contact with her, I am determined that I can turn her around because I've overcome "Huge" hurdles already and have gotten her trust and she already has bailed me out many times. She asked me to go to Indonesia with her when she retires on vacation I hope not just as friends as I'd have a hard time keeping my hands off her if we went. My friends think I'm amazing that I got a girl of her caliber to need me and I truly believe that I can get the girl but need supportive, experienced guys who can see this task as the ultimate challenge and help me get this girl. I blocked my cell and purposely lost contact with her over 8 months ago for about 6 days simply because I was frustrated, already infatuated with her and this was before making the strides I've accomplished using the Pandora's system. She went to two different coffee shops in my bad area of town looking for me. I'm about 400 pounds and my coffee buddies thought I was a god when she came looking for me. I had a girl of this caliber seek me out in the "Bad area of Town" where she said she'd never go, she called from my appartment window in my back lane at night because she needed my friendship and support. I've gotten her a few times screaming and swearing at me saying that no one makes her so angry at times and doesn't know why she puts up with me because I was thinking she was being deceitful because I sometimes have trust issues. A few times she was angry telling me that she's had it and will block my contacting her but takes me back after she's calmed down. She's bought me food and taken me out for supper. I know I can get the girl with support, I will praise and give bragging rights to anyone on here that will help. I will give more details about her to the serious people on here and not wasting my time with negative comments. She is the one for me and I would accept only friendship from her if that's all I get but why settle for that when I can have my dream girl. I've already overcome things that I can't believe and others shake their heads at in disbelief, Why settle for less? Please help me, I adore her and know we could be magic. tried to attach a pic of her not sure if it'll go through.