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Thread: How do I change a TDR Private Dancer into an investor?

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    Unhappy How do I change a TDR Private Dancer into an investor?

    I have a very close connection with a Private Dancer, at first I thought she was a Seductress and messed up a bit only getting mixed results but because I was using sexual innuendo and even though I was making huge strides I was still roadblocked. I'm an all or nothing person and this gal is the one I'd like to spend the rest of my life with. I hope I can get usable advice and not reasons I should forget the chase. I admit this woman most guys would say run, saying "you have no chance, why bother, too much still against you", but if there are any seasoned PUA Guru's out there willing to give their advice on this challenge I'd welcome it. I'm a large guy with an outgoing personality and been told I'm fun and charming and refuse to believe I can't get my dream girl. We are so close it hurts but she's due to retire this June and I'll loose contact with her, I am determined that I can turn her around because I've overcome "Huge" hurdles already and have gotten her trust and she already has bailed me out many times. She asked me to go to Indonesia with her when she retires on vacation I hope not just as friends as I'd have a hard time keeping my hands off her if we went. My friends think I'm amazing that I got a girl of her caliber to need me and I truly believe that I can get the girl but need supportive, experienced guys who can see this task as the ultimate challenge and help me get this girl. I blocked my cell and purposely lost contact with her over 8 months ago for about 6 days simply because I was frustrated, already infatuated with her and this was before making the strides I've accomplished using the Pandora's system. She went to two different coffee shops in my bad area of town looking for me. I'm about 400 pounds and my coffee buddies thought I was a god when she came looking for me. I had a girl of this caliber seek me out in the "Bad area of Town" where she said she'd never go, she called from my appartment window in my back lane at night because she needed my friendship and support. I've gotten her a few times screaming and swearing at me saying that no one makes her so angry at times and doesn't know why she puts up with me because I was thinking she was being deceitful because I sometimes have trust issues. A few times she was angry telling me that she's had it and will block my contacting her but takes me back after she's calmed down. She's bought me food and taken me out for supper. I know I can get the girl with support, I will praise and give bragging rights to anyone on here that will help. I will give more details about her to the serious people on here and not wasting my time with negative comments. She is the one for me and I would accept only friendship from her if that's all I get but why settle for that when I can have my dream girl. I've already overcome things that I can't believe and others shake their heads at in disbelief, Why settle for less? Please help me, I adore her and know we could be magic. tried to attach a pic of her not sure if it'll go through.

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    Default Re: How do I change a TDR Private Dancer into an investor?

    Ok, a few things. First of all, it's very bad to have trust issues with a stripper because, ironically, strippers are the most jealous women i have ever met. I dated a stripper for six months, and traveled with her all over europe, so I know. She was beautiful, but because she was exposed to so many customers that were husbands, boyfriends, fiance, etc. strippers start getting seriously jaded about men. So, if YOU start having trust issues, that's a serious problem. What I've found is that strippers are actually quite loyal, precisely because they have seen so much bad crap. Now in terms of getting this girl as a girlfriend, etc.... it's hard to give solid advice. It sounds like she really likes you, at the very least as a friend. Question is, are you in the friend zone? I don't have enough information to know, but you should have a pretty good guess. My view is that you need to take this to a sexual level. Whether it starts slow, like with sexual comments or sexual flirting... that needs to happen. I would definitely go to Indonesia with her. My stripper girl fell in love with me on our trip to Europe during the summer. Vacations are the best thing to get a girl to fall in lvoe with you.
    just play it cool, don't have trust issues, be the confident guy, don't kiss her ass, and take it to a sexual level and go on vacation with her.
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    And when you do go on vacation with her, absolutely no jealouy issues, no fighting, no low confidence crap. Just be the cool, fun guy. That is a great combo... I've been to indonesia... super amazing place, very spiritual. Strippers are especially sensitive to spiritual stuff. Once you have serious one on one time, and you get to know her on a deep level, and she feels like you are the only person on the planet that gets her... you are in. game over.
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    Is it possible if I bought a long distance calling card, can I call you voice? I now it's unusual but I learn more from talking then typing. I have a magic jack as well so I could call you voice?

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    Default Re: How do I change a TDR Private Dancer into an investor?

    Quote Originally Posted by blazeboy View Post
    And when you do go on vacation with her, absolutely no jealouy issues, no fighting, no low confidence crap. Just be the cool, fun guy. That is a great combo... I've been to indonesia... super amazing place, very spiritual. Strippers are especially sensitive to spiritual stuff. Once you have serious one on one time, and you get to know her on a deep level, and she feels like you are the only person on the planet that gets her... you are in. game over.
    She's met a guy and tried to hide it saying she was talking to a girlfriend. She's a high paying escort who befriended me, who am I kidding. She made over 100 thou last year and I have nothing but my love and good intentions for us. I don't know if there really was a way to get her, If I escallate physically she'll get horney and get it taken care of by the next John/Client. I feel like I was trying to play a player. I think she only helped me so I could continue to drive for her cause she can't seem to keep any drivers. She short changes me often on the driving fee and I think she only talked about retiring in June because it was an orbiter strategy. I'm not sure if we're really friends now. She yelled at me yesterday and told me she doesn't want me because of my weight, looks, and no job saying she needs a guy who can give her stability. I have so many things planned for my success and she won't see me as a work in progress that she can mold into a guy she'd want. She told me she'd rather have a loveless partnership with a guy with money. She said I'm good looking but not her type, My heart was crushed. I'm gonna continue the game and get a girl hotter than her but without the bullshit of being in the trade. Maybe I was seeing what I wanted to see and her selling a fantasy bled over into our relationship. Whenever we hung around she took her cell phones. I desperately wanted validation of our REALLY being friends by trying to get her to do stuff "Off the clock" but she says she's busy and in between calls she says is quality time with me. When she meets one of her friends that is not in the trade and she says doesn't know her trade, she leaves her cells at home. She only takes her personal cell which I never get the number. I'm a fool thinking I had a chance with her. Maybe the real her I thought I saw and loved wasn't really her either. I hate her right now, actually in all honesty this reminds me of all the past times I was told by a girl I liked that she doesn't see me that way and lie finding out later that she has a guy. At this moment I hate women in general. They're all stuck in cave woman mode that they need an Alpha male but It seems the only guys around close to them are the abusers, jerks and PUA's which I aim to master. It seems guys have been slowly been adapting and coaxed through legislation and society conditioning to forget that they are males and should be ashamed of exhibiting Alpha characteristics. In the 70's guys that were good with women were macho but even look at sex symbols for young ladies today which the guys have long eyelashes and girl like hair. That's why guys from the islands and places like Spain and Portugal think women are so easy here. I'm fed up but in the pain is a drive to learn PUA so I can control the outcome.


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