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    Default Re: Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    Interesting girl. She has a histrionic personality disorder and a little borderline. This doesn't mean that she's insane, but you have to treat her in a special way because her feelings sometimes (often) overwhelm her. Definitely don't be clingy, but don't freeze her out either (unless she's an ass unrelated to her mood swings) and be cool with whatever she does. (If you have mood swings, stay away from her because bad stuff will happen then!)

    What-ever she does, try to just ignore her mood swings. Sometimes she really really wants, and sometimes not. Just be cool about when she doesn't have any interest and definitely don't try to make her feel bad (like you would with a normal girl). When she isn't in the mood there is nothing she or you can do and even things like explaining that she's missing out on something will do nothing good. Saying things that she missed out on great sex when she is feeling that sex is the worst thing in the world, is of course not good.

    And don't try to make plans! If she's in a bad mood, there is nothing she or you can do. What I do is that I make (at least) two plans: One if she shows up and another one for when she doesn't. It's really hard, but it's nothing personal when she doesn't show up! No use to try to punish her, talk about it or try to make her jealous. See it like this: If she suddenly doesn't want to see you, she's doing you a favour because she's in a so bad mood that you really don't want to see her either.

    But I can tell you than when she really is in the right mood, you'll see passion you never seen before

    I have and have had some borderline girls, and I love them because they are never the same, stuff happens and it's like being with a big group of different girls actually.

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    Default Re: Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    Yup. Keep it clean or the mods will edit... to many times and you get banned.

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    Default Re: Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    Its cool i didnt know this site had a clean limit haha. My bad.

    To respond to the other post...no shes not one of those type of girls. you misinterpreted this thread. She doesnt have mood swings. Shes just absolutely terrible with her phone. She definitely likes to brag about what kinds of options she has going for her life a lot. Shes just a very hard girl to deal with. Almost annoying enough where i dont even want to pursue it anymore. (And i didnt she pursued me the other night)

    Im sure she gets hit on all the time by many dudes and thats why she put herself in this bubble she is in where she really just pents up everything until shes drunk. I Dont know i have other options for woman i just really thought we clicked on a different level. Some things are maybe just not meant to be. It is still my goal to F*ck her by the end of this semester tho.

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    Default Re: Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    It's hard to tell what exactly the problem is from your description, but she could be testing you. You mentioned that she liked it when you pulled her head in to make out. Try taking control more. Remember that its YOUR frame.

    She also may have just been bored and unenthusiastic about the interaction. Try teasing her more at the beginnig, you can use push-pull in bed too.

    Sometimes the best thing to do is to just say what your natural response would be. You gotta be willing to let her go, I believe the "I hate you" was a test to see if you'd just accept her bitchiness. You could have said, "No, you love me. Now take off my pants."

    If she persists with the I hate you thing and refuses to comply, try a freeze out. Stop touching her, stand up, eye contact, and (not angry or emotional) say, "Then leave. I'm really into you right now, but I don't invite people who hate me into my bed. So there's the door." Turn the lights on and start checking your email or watching infant brain surgery on your computer. She'll feel the absence.

    A perfect 10 has never had that happen to her before, especially in college, lol.

    If she doesn't leave and STILL won't let you escalate, she might need comfort/connection but is just really bad at showing it. Almost everyone in the world has childhood issues that make them weird about something, perfect 10s are not exempt from that.

    The bottom line is don't put up with her sh1t!!!

    There's a lot of stuff about this subject that probably wouldn't be appropriate for this forum, so PM me for some ebook suggestions on dominance in bed. But don't take her bullshit; you already know she wants you, she may just be testing to see if you're comfortable being sexual and taking control. You got her this far because of:
    1. The push-pull,
    2. Being a cool guy, and
    3. Being the DJ is a DHV. You were controlling an entire room full of people dancing to your music, and she's testing to see if you carry that control into the bedroom. Don't be afraid to smack her on the arse a little bit.

    Next time she comes to see you DJ, don't be afraid to get a song going, take a break,break her away from whatever she's doing, then take her hand when no one's looking and lead her to a private spot for a makeout, and go balls to the wall caveman. You have a perfect exit after a couple minutes to go tend to the DJ stuff again. But before you leave, tell her "You were naked in my bed but we didn't do anything. That's weird." Then turn around and walk away, don't look back or give her a chance to respond. Push-pull.

    All this stuff I've told you to say may not be "you," so basically communicate the same ideas in your own words. I'm just giving you examples.

    Hope that helped man! And PM me for the inappropriate stuff, lol.

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    Default Re: Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    What the hell that girl is crazy, sounds like its time for a freeze out. Maybe be more aggressive. Force her to say no and only give her any attention when she understands your going to fark.


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