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    Default Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    So ive been texting this girl for a couple weeks now. I have been playing it cool, but she is terrible with her phone. Even her friends talk about how they have to go to her house to get a hold of her...

    If she doesnt respond one night i will NOT text her again and she usually responds the next day in the afternoon with something like "Sorry i fell asleep"

    The big IOI's ive been getting are her late night drunk texts. She will ask why we never hang out, how we have a lot in common, etc. She is usually the one that initiates the drunken convos and she also is very good at responding then. (Also sends snapchats of herself laying down in bed and stuff...definitely showing some cleavage as well)

    So the one night she was pretty much begging me to come over and hang out with her at like 2-3AM and I said i couldnt and i wanted to hang out the next day. (Reality was i probably could have and SHOULD have but it was 3 in the morning and i had a very busy next day)

    The next day, i actually called her and she said she had class and said she'd hit me up after and never did...(I obviously didnt remind her cuz i dont wanna seem desperate) She later texted me saying she was too busy and was running late.

    So basically we built a lot of rapport together so far, a lot of conversations about how we are very similar, and some of these conversations even got a little sexual with the Emojis she uses (shes an emoji whore) and also the responses i've gotten from some of the more sexual jokes i give out.

    IF she didnt wanna hook up why would she be telling me to come over at 3am? Why would i be on her mind at 2-3am if she didnt have some feelings for me...

    I had this similar situation before and i made stupid mistakes and got friended. I dont wanna make the same mistakes again.

    Seeing how i am a DJ and she attends a lot of events I DJ at im probably gonna just not text her until i see her in person...this way i can come up with some solid negs and jokes and build attraction in person.

    Any suggestions as to what my next move should be? I dont wanna wait too long but i think at this point its gone downhill as opposed to how it was the last 2 weeks. On Tuesday I got a little too drunk and maybe used a little too harsh of jokes out of frustration...but i think i am still fine if the next move i make is brave and confident.

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    Default Re: Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    Anyone? I could really use some advice here. This girl is pretty perfect in my eyes and i dont wanna fuck it up.

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    Default Re: Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    My apologies for no one responding.

    My first tip is to take her off the pedestal a bit. I have no doubt that she may be simply beautiful and elegant in every sense of those words, but this is for long term because our mind dictates our behavior and you don't want to fall in the trap of treating her like a queen when she doesn't deserve it.

    As for inviting you over at 3am...I'm sure she is interested, but it does not mean she values you. What I mean is that she is probably interested in a LOT of guys, but values none of them. Inviting you at the last min at 3am would be disrespectful if a man did that to a woman. She would feel like a bootycall. I'm sure you have no problem with that lol...but my point is to help shape you as valuable in her eyes so she'll try harder rather than only when she feels it's convenient for her.

    Who do you think puts more importance on you? A woman inviting you at 3am to come her house ASAP or a woman who says she wants to make time for you that upcoming weekend? Hell some women talk about marriage in the first few weeks of dating. So I'm sure you can guess which type of woman would put more value on you and your time.

    So if you raise your value she'll be more likely to chase you more. There are many things to raise your value that are beyond the scope of my post. But the two biggest things you should look into are push/pull and DHVing. That is...if you are serious about changing your circumstances or looking for that magic quick fix. Hope this helps and good luck.
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    Default Re: Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    You are exactly right tho. She was in Miami all weekend and didnt hit me up once.

    I felt like denying her request for me to come over is a good push pull tho is it not? That whole convo was basically her trying to get me over there and me playing it cool. I think that when she realizes the shit she says when shes drunk the next day she kinda backs up.

    Is there a section of this forum that focuses more on DHV and Push/Pull?

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    Default Re: Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    Quote Originally Posted by Pioneer22 View Post
    You are exactly right tho. She was in Miami all weekend and didnt hit me up once.

    I felt like denying her request for me to come over is a good push pull tho is it not? That whole convo was basically her trying to get me over there and me playing it cool. I think that when she realizes the sh1t she says when shes drunk the next day she kinda backs up.

    Is there a section of this forum that focuses more on DHV and Push/Pull?
    I did intend to mention that, but forgot. It was good to refuse her invite. But to add a little flavor you could say something like "Oh I wish you would've contacted me sooner. I would've been there in a flash!" This creates a certain tension because you're giving her the feeling that she ALMOST had you if she just contacted you sooner. It also increases the chances she will actually contact you sooner lol.

    Here is a post a bit on push/pull. But there's tons you can check out for yourself if you really want to learn. The info is available. You just got to put in the effort.
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    Default Re: Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    Dude this girl is one of the most impossible girls ive ever met. She'll just cut off conversation sometimes (in which i cut off as well) but then continues the next day. I am never the one to initiate conversation. The IOIs are there. I just want one chance one on one to really let her see who i am and see if it works out, but i dont want to act needy. Kinda in a standstill

    Im about to just say fuck it and move on. Many fish in the sea, and i dont have time for bullshit games!!

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    Default Re: Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    Well if you have nothing to lose then go ahead and do what you can for a meet up. Even at the risk of looking needy. You might be surprised what you find out.
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    Default Re: Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    We both went to a show last night and i thought she wasnt going until she texted me midway through it but i had to leave right away after the show.

    Had a little text convo after and she was answering pretty quickly...
    Asked her if she was going to the after party she said no she was sober and was beat.

    Then i said you should use some of that new found energy and hang out with me sometime!

    Stopped texting me and havent gotten a reply yet. hahaaa

    i think when she does reply im just not gonna answer her for a few days unless its something really positive.

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    Default Re: Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    I thought id decide to follow up on this post.

    Saturday night when i was DJing she wouldnt leave me alone all night. I played it very cool as i was DJing and i was very busy so it probably helped the fact that i slightly was ignoring her all night not like i really intended do i just kinda had to.

    She stayed until the end of the night...waited for me to pack my sh1t up. Waited downstairs for me to get paid another 15-20 minutes later. Walked home to my car....made it pretty farkin obvious she wanted to come back to either mine or her house....so i drove her to mine to avoid any issues. The minute we walked inside she walks upstairs with me and is the first person to go in my room and get in my bed under the covers..

    At this point im like wow i just sealed the deal with one of the hottest girls at my University, let alone that ive ever encountered.... but it got weird

    Every move i made she acted weird about. We made out for a while, but she would stop a buncha times. and i would grab her face and make out with her more. (I think she liked the aggressiveness) ... The whole time tho she was acting weird at first every move i made.

    So i figured Jesus christ this girl made it so obvious she wanted to hook up with me why the fark is she making it so difficult and weird now. I have NEVER had a problem advancing on a girl once i actually get her into my bed in my life. She was horny as fark but when i come up to make out with her again thinking shed just rip off my pants she says "i hate you" haha it completely threw me off guard. so i went out and smoked a farkin cigarette and said fark this sh1t.

    It was honestly ridiculous. I dont know what i did wrong at all. Maybe it was just her being weird as hell. i dont know. She was definitely more drunk than me which made it weirder for me to make advances...and also we smoked a blunt prior...I am THINKING the blunt maybe made things weird for her and maybe she was getting the spins or something. She definitely enjoyed everything i did tho....

    She also slept completely naked and didnt put clothes on and stayed til 2 pm the next day in my bed naked. I didnt cuddle with her but she did come to me during the night and lay with me.

    If anyone has any suggestions please please feel free to try and enlighten me on what to do next or what i maybe have done wrong.
    Last edited by KristiBell; 03-13-2013 at 10:38 PM.

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    Default Re: Need ADVICE for a really cool 10 (DIME)

    Dunno why my last post was edited? Too detailed?


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