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    Default Is that a sh1t test?

    Hey ya,


    Weird problem I guess. I was doing well with one girl, we had great convos and yesterday I was at a bus station talking on the phone when she arrived and passed by saying nothing. I called her and she went straight on lol. Logically I thought something was wrong so I went after her and met her at the other station (lol again) and she was like.. I just came to take a photo of bus schedule and she went into market. She came out after 10 minutes, I was still waiting for my bus and when I saw her I turned around and when I turned back she was not there anymore. She disappeared totally. I went and checked where the hell she is but she was nowhere lool. I called her and left her a message, I also talked to her friend this morning about this sh1t and blablah (I met her in school) cause I was really worried. She replied an hour ago with :"Hey, I had no credits on my phone to get back to you. What do you mean wrong? I would like to know what is wrong"


    Is that some kind of a sh1t test? Or does she feel sorry now for making an idiot move that day

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    Default Re: Is that a sh1t test?

    Hey bud,

    sounds like a sh1t test if I ever heard one. Even if it isn't, you're putting yourself in that situation. Like lets SAY that she was just busy running to take a picture of the bus schedule, you ended up looking like a chasing puppy (in her eyes). Problem there is now she thinks she has control. If a girl is interested in you, she WILL make the time to say hello or exchange pleasantries. Don't ask her friends about it, makes you look even needier. IF her friends bring her up, you should say something like "yeah she was acting strange when I bumped into her", but don't bring it up. Drops your defenses and they know you're tripping.

    My advice on the matter would be to maybe back off a bit and see if she makes efforts to talk/hang, or at the most give it some time and set up a group hangout this way you can analyze the situation without giving yourself away.

    Goodluck bud

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    Default Re: Is that a sh1t test?

    Honestly man.. I have to say you sound really needy there. (Don't worry we all did) I mean.. She passes you by, you meet her later and talk to her. Then she leaves and comes back and doesn't come back to you to talk. Why would you call or text her?

    Try not chasing after women, it won't get you anywhere. You know those kids who buy everything for their friend? Those guys are basicly trying too hard. Those ''friends'' are using those nice guys for what they have. Anyways!

    Think of this. You are the prize, not her. If she passes you by and doesn't say Hi, okay no prob, I'll go see and say hi. She does her things and leaves without checking you back. Well, don't pay attention to it. Try not to react to it.

    By calling her and texting her, THEN! texting her friend. You seemed rather needy weither she had minutes or not.

    Honeys actually like guys chasing after them, they can say wooow he's annoying but inside, they love it. It gives them that validation and ego boost. Why ? Girls are all in competition with each other. If a girl is good looking and has guys chasing them, obviously her ego will be up but other girls will envy her.

    Keep an eye on that. We all done those mistakes :>

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    Default Re: Is that a sh1t test?

    If she made eye contact with you and then passed by I would say it was a $hit test. In that situation the best thing you could have done is smile at her as she passes by. Let them chase you. Look your best and project confidence and they will come to you!

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    Default Re: Is that a sh1t test?

    Quote Originally Posted by ablindman9 View Post
    Honestly man.. I have to say you sound really needy there. (Don't worry we all did) I mean.. She passes you by, you meet her later and talk to her. Then she leaves and comes back and doesn't come back to you to talk. Why would you call or text her?


    No no, you didn`t get me right here. She did it on purpose, trust me, I`m sure because the other station is in totally different place and I saw where she came from and where she went after. And when I said she came back and then disappeared... she saw me, I saw her, I turned around and then turned back and she was gone, again on purpose.

    Well maybe I sound needy but I don`t think I`m needy, if there is anything wrong I just want to know lol, her behaviour was just so... and my thoughts.. you can never tell if a girl likes that you are worried or that you don`t care. You can`t tell which way is better to her so you have to take one

    Ou, and I didn`t text her friend, I met her friend and just ask if she knows anything about cause I felt really stupid


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