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    markrichards is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default need advice on what to do next

    The girl I've been seeing (sleeping with) for a couple of months has gone distant and is no longer initiating contact or plans. She replies one for one to my texts but it usually takes her at least half a day. She is studying for a doctor and says that's the reason why she can't see me much.

    In the last two weeks we've only caught up for two hours and that was at a party with her friends. She left after a couple of hours because she had to go home to study.

    I have no idea where I stand with her.

    Should I be upfront and ask where I stand with her? (vulnerable I know)

    or should I do something more game to spark her interest back

    or should I do nothing and start dating other people.

    Last week I went cold turkey and stopped contact with her to see if she would actually initiate contact. Nothing. Not even a text for Valentines day. I caved in and texted her for Valentines day and asked if she was busy on the weekend (cause I wanted to have a chat with her/suss out the situation) but that didn't end up happening because there were people around.

    I'm guessing that her lack of initiating contact/plans is her way of hoping i'll get the hint and drop off the face of the earth. Is there anything I can do to spark her attraction again and get her initiating contact with me or should I just write this one of.

    If there's something more frustrating that getting rejected its that feeling that someone just couldn't care one way or the other. She just seems dispassionate and emotionally detached about the whole thing.

    Some help guys?

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    ablindman9 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: need advice on what to do next

    You decide what to do. But when you text her ? Are they short answers like: Nice, Fun, Okay, Oh yea', or short boring texts. If you get those, she lost interest.


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