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    iseriouslyneedhelp is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Help with Korean girl, am I already friendzoned?

    Sorry for the long story, but please read it its not as tedious as it might seem,

    Ok so I met this Korean girl at this valentines day lock and key event. I wasnt actually her "other half" in the game (wont go into the details) but she seemed interested in me a lot more than her guy so I started chatting her up.

    I acted all cool throughout the night in the pub where this was going on until someone suggested we go to this club which took a while to walk to. We were chatting all the way and at the club there was an entry fee so she basically said she wants to go home. I didnt want to seem needy so I didnt offer to pay for her or walk her home (she was with friends anyway) but she had added me on facebook earlier.

    I got some minor IOIs from her:
    1. she was laughing at all my jokes
    2. constantly high fiving me
    3. walking towards me when i walked over to my friends for a chat with them.

    So this morning I messged her on facebook with some quick small talk to which responded (2-3 messages), after which I invited her for a club night out with one of my friends, to which she accepted and asked if she could bring her friend along and I said thats fine.

    I just wanted to continue where we left off, as opposed to ask her out or get friendzoned.

    Have I already friendzoned myself? Or is there room for attraction? Plus what advice would you give me for the next time we go out clubbing?

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    Default Re: Help with Korean girl, am I already friendzoned?

    Sounds good to me, like you have good rapport (her following you). Just when you hang out, escalate touching. One thing I saw one PUA do is say to the girl that they have good energy together, you could try that. My advice would be to try to K-close

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    Default Re: Help with Korean girl, am I already friendzoned?

    Quote Originally Posted by scguitar View Post
    Sounds good to me, like you have good rapport (her following you). Just when you hang out, escalate touching. One thing I saw one PUA do is say to the girl that they have good energy together, you could try that. My advice would be to try to K-close
    Very true, although I wouldn't try to kiss close unless you are certain she is into you. Last thing you want is force something, right ?

    I'd say, wait for the clubbing night first because went you meet her, isn't a date at all. Its just a meeting right. Even when you join someone to chill for just an hour. It isn't a date, its a hook up. If you organize something Nooow! its a date, so Game on.

    But from what I see, you're nothing near friendzone. The only thing you lacked was the simple Kino, demonstrating you arn't just a friend (*touch upper arm while talking, placing hand on lower back to move her. and so on*) . You didn't provide anything from the interaction so I can't really help you out on that.

    Good job tho, tell us more after the club.

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    iseriouslyneedhelp is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Help with Korean girl, am I already friendzoned?

    The only kind of touching I had was hugs and walking arm in arm, which actually begs another question how to kino escalate if youre moving? Hopefully when we're in the club it should be alright

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    Default Re: Help with Korean girl, am I already friendzoned?

    You did good on the kino now that you mention it. Theirs so many waaays to Kino while walking. Kino means touching, simply. Going arm to arm while walking is great.

    When I was going back home from a club two days ago, I had this girl with me which I playfully and softly shoved her forward while going down the stairs, she laughed and told me to stop, after the stairs I gave her a hug from behind while walking. Small flirty talk.

    They're a thread about Kino somewhere here, read it up.
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