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    Default should i send her arrangements?

    I feel like sending this girl edible arrangements via delivery. Im not going to put my name on it only because i dont want to mess up my chances with her, in fear of being "too nice" lol.

    im trying to make her my gf...
    what advice can ya give me?

    and my letter goes something like,..
    "im sending this to you just because i think you deserve it"

    ^im still working on more.

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    Default Re: should i send her arrangements?

    Sending girls presents, flowers etc. is a very generous thought but we're going to need to know a little bit more about the situation.

    How many dates have you been on?
    Have you kissed her yet?
    Have you f-closed?
    How long have you known the girl?
    etc.

    Sending an arrangement to her could either strengthen your relationship with her or freak her out.
    "She'll forgive you for being a man...but she WON'T forgive you for being a p*ssy"

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    Default Re: should i send her arrangements?

    Quote Originally Posted by ShoreGuy28 View Post
    Sending girls presents, flowers etc. is a very generous thought but we're going to need to know a little bit more about the situation.

    How many dates have you been on?
    Have you kissed her yet?
    Have you f-closed?
    How long have you known the girl?
    etc.

    Sending an arrangement to her could either strengthen your relationship with her or freak her out.
    hmmm i havent done any of those, just flirt with her
    i known her for almost three years, i used to work with her (didnt have feelings for her back then) but dont any longer. we hang out in a group every now and then, go clubbing get food etc

    i asked her to be my date to an engagement party, she said yes. (however i think she could have said yes because she knows the person who is getting engaged; i had an invitation and she didnt)

    at times she has gave me a hint or two that she was feeling me.
    but maybe she could have been just flirting?


    i def dont want to freak her out

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    Default Re: should i send her arrangements?

    My friend Trackster. If she said yes to a date with you you have the green light to send those edible gifts. Gotta love that "you deserve it" part. I would recommend that instead of going anonymous you give it to her personally. Of course if it was me, I would also send her some useful gifts such as a very good bathing soap or some hand lotion. Is always good that instead of giving a lot of that romantic stuff you give usefull gifts to the lady, that shows that you care and that you know about her. Don't go too romantic on her or otherwise she'll freak out. What I would do is give her the gift with a very nice soap, a small size teddy bear, a small hand lotion and the edible stuff. The gift would say: "this gift is for you because you deserve it, you are gold". Hope this helps man. Keep us updated.

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    Default Re: should i send her arrangements?

    My general rule of thumb is that unless she is your gf or wife, don't get her SHIT! Lol.

    But do what you feel is right. Take note of her response and whether it helps or hurts you. Mistakes build character and you'll gain experience. Good luck.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: should i send her arrangements?

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    My general rule of thumb is that unless she is your gf or wife, don't get her sh1t! Lol.

    But do what you feel is right. Take note of her response and whether it helps or hurts you. Mistakes build character and you'll gain experience. Good luck.

    this is hard lol
    i want to get her something but then again what you say is right i shouldn't because she is not my gf or wife.


    i feel the confidence that i can get this girl, i guess that has to account for something?

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    Default Re: should i send her arrangements?

    Quote Originally Posted by Casio View Post
    My friend Trackster. If she said yes to a date with you you have the green light to send those edible gifts. Gotta love that "you deserve it" part. I would recommend that instead of going anonymous you give it to her personally. Of course if it was me, I would also send her some useful gifts such as a very good bathing soap or some hand lotion. Is always good that instead of giving a lot of that romantic stuff you give usefull gifts to the lady, that shows that you care and that you know about her. Don't go too romantic on her or otherwise she'll freak out. What I would do is give her the gift with a very nice soap, a small size teddy bear, a small hand lotion and the edible stuff. The gift would say: "this gift is for you because you deserve it, you are gold". Hope this helps man. Keep us updated.
    question for you,.. so we went out tonight with mutual friends, one of my friends invited her to come out in a group and me not having hit her up the entire day she texts me asking me if i was going. (she does happen to ask me if im going to such places every now and then)
    so once i get this text i wait like 20 minutes or so to reply back to make it seem like im busy ;-) lol
    and i reply back with
    "ah great ur gonna be there? im not going anymore"
    "jk =p im going lolol"

    by asking me if i was going could she be into me? or something?
    did i "neg" her through text, is my text game any good?

    another thing
    when we meet up, she doesnt kiss hello me, maybe just to one other person and thats it. (its a big group of people)
    when we leave she doesnt kiss goodbye me but to only one person, she just says bye.

    i dont get this, what could she be telling me?????


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