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Thread: Help! She Lied! Caught Having Dinner with HER EX

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    Default Help! She Lied! Caught Having Dinner with HER EX

    Old Friend of Mine since Middle School befriended me on facebook after 15 years . She's cute brunette nice body. I wanted to have sex with her so I asked her out. We have be seeing each other now for 2 1/2 months. But it's mostly a fling thing. She loves the sex.
    I'm really not looking for a relationship. I have trust issue with women. I been hurt too many times. And enjoy being a PUA So haven't committed to her fully but we spend a lot of time together. She's good to me. She basically caters to my ever need. She picks me up food when I hungry. Pays for almost everything.
    She started to grow on me. Until last night when she said to me she was coming over my house after dinner with her parents. I figure I'd step out with the fellas for a bite to eat and spotted her with her ex boyfriend eating at the same restaurant. She saw me and was shocked. So I kept it cool and said "Hi" told her to enjoy her meal and kept it moving.
    I didn't text her or call her. Tonight she showed up at my house. We talked briefly. She admits to being wrong. She claims it ment nothing. She says that they just had dinner blah blah blah...I told her I don't like that she LIED to me and should try working it out with her ex.
    Now she's texting me like crazy that she really likes me and I'm making her cry. I haven't replied. I don't know what to do? I kind of miss her and feel bad for her. Whats the best way to handle this?

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    Default Re: Help! She Lied! Caught Having Dinner with HER EX

    Basically commit to her or call it off. She's mad into you - no need to play with her emotions.

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    Default Re: Help! She Lied! Caught Having Dinner with HER EX

    I agree with the guy above me if you're looking for a solution which gurantees you to still have sex with and stay friends i dont think thats going to happen. It is painfully obvious that she wants a comitment unless she wouldn't have had dinner with her ex bf that was your fault for letting her do it in all honesty you guys aren't dating so she didn't have to tel you anything it's obvious to me that you have feelings for her and you don't want to admit because like you said you been hurt way to many times to trust and when she went out with her ex it hurt you. If you care about her man then be with her if not then don't waste any more of yours or hers t ime.

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    Default Re: Help! She Lied! Caught Having Dinner with HER EX

    all honesty you guys aren't dating so she didn't have to tel you anything it's obvious to me that you have feelings for her
    it's called a level of respect, you lie to my face once i'll be skeptical, twice and you're done with - nobody likes liars

    my advice don't take her crap if it were me i'd let her know if she does it again that it's done, and having dinner with ex'es is perfectly normal, i've had dinner with mine just as friends without strings or reworking our relationship

    Now she's texting me like crazy that she really likes me and I'm making her cry. I haven't replied. I don't know what to do? I kind of miss her and feel bad for her. Whats the best way to handle this?
    the same thing you've been doing for the past few months

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    Default Re: Help! She Lied! Caught Having Dinner with HER EX

    Great advice! I agree. It's not really the ex it's the lie I could give it another try she slips up again and she's history! lol Thanks Man!


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