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    Juetas is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Is it too late for this private dancer?

    Well, you're right, thanks. I went for "Well xy (A phrase I used frequently with her) Our life's are so great at the moment, we're both feeling well.So cut out the drama We won't talk about this via text, but we go ice skating on sunday. PS We are oscar" Well, I know it's not perfect, we'll see. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Is it too late for this private dancer?

    But I have the feeling she freezes me now. Just 1 day after I wanted to start this, lol. Sick. So I guess I have to invest after a few days after she told me she doesn't want contact?

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    Default Re: Is it too late for this private dancer?

    I gotta be honest...this is a tough call. You're going to have to use calibration based on what you know about her. I've used both persistence and have left them alone. Both with positive and negative results.

    I still think you should just be like "K" and wait about a week before contacting her like she didn't say anything. But this is a rough guess.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Is it too late for this private dancer?

    Alright. I think I'll invite her over one more time and try to talk her into a friendship with benefits. She is pretty naiv, and I think with my rhetorical ability, as well with "the cube" and maybe "strawberry field" I can somehow talk her into that and escalate. If not I will have to let her go. But if I do nothing now, I kind of give in that she is right, and kind of accept her frame, and shouldn't it be the other way round? At least that's what I guess.

    As well as on the other side, she is a private dancer. Afaik she didn't have sex in quite a long time, and I kind of think i can talk her into this. Well. Ofc I don't know. But thanks.

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    Default Re: Is it too late for this private dancer?

    Ok, I just got the info from one of my best friends who still lives with her, that a friend of her was visiting her. She was there until 10 in the evening and I received the text at about half past 9. So i guess they talked about me and she maybe helped her writing this text or something. Is there any advantage I can make out of this, or does this mean anything? I guess probably not, but I dunno.

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    Default Re: Is it too late for this private dancer?

    Saying "K" is NOT accepting her frame. It's merely letting her know that you got her message.

    If you were to try and convince her why she is wrong or try to change her mind then that is accepting the frame.

    Well you already sent out he invite for the ice skating. If she hasn't responded then it's possible she may be serious. Contact her in a week to see if she still feels the same way.
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    Default Re: Is it too late for this private dancer?

    Alright, I changed my plans. (Yeah I'm a noob, can't change it). For first I called her and told her, that I don't want a relationship with her and with no woman in the moment. Now I'm trying to date her every now and then, and when she gets used to me I'll freeze her out. Ofc I wanna see if shes starting to miss we which would be good I guess, in the end I just wanna have sex and don't wanna have a relationship. So thank you very much for your help, I'm working on my inner game to get i straight and in the meantime I'll try to start opening sets just to train. Thanks.


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