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    Default Number close girl with a date

    I was out at the bar and opened a girl who was waiting for her friends to arrive. My wingman and I chatted her up a bit. I left to give him the upper hand on this one and he bailed soon after. Later after her friends arrived I boldly asked her if she was single because my friend was interested. She said she wasn't. Ok, so we chat some more friendly like and she's giving me IOIs. My theory is by asking her that and being direct I established myself as the AMOG. I start to hang a bit with her group getting to know everybody, including her date for the evening. Later on, she hangs back with me to talk some more while her date goes to the bar to get drinks. I ask her how it's going with the BF, she says it's not her boyfriend and that they're just dating but it's "meh." So, I say, "well, maybe you should still give me your number?..etc." "No, I should be good...etc" is her response. Still giving me IOIs but not wanting to give me her number. I wasn't able to close the rest of the evening even despite repeated IOIs all night.

    Thoughts, suggestions, ideas?

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    Default Re: Number close girl with a date

    Good work on being an AMOG and sticking with it but I think you went wrong by even initially asking if she was single...

    When I meet a girl or approach a woman at a bar, unless she is with her husband, I immediately assume she is single and take most of her interactions with me as an IOI. This does a number of things for me and most importantly, allows me to be the AMOG and gives me all the confidence in the room.

    Next, when you tried to get the number close:

    1) "Exchanging is better than recieving"...one thing you can almost ALWAYS do is find a common interest with a girl and then tell her that you should "exchange numbers to continue a fun conversation later on..blah blah blah". That lowers her guard by giving her a "legit" excuse to give out her number and also makes her more attracted to you!

    2) If you can pull off cocky funny, I wouldn't have "asked" for her number as much as just "telling" her to give me her number.

    All in all you did good and don't let it stop you from improving your game. PM me if you have any more questions!
    "She'll forgive you for being a man...but she WON'T forgive you for being a p*ssy"

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    Slater is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Number close girl with a date

    ShoreGuy28,

    Thanks for the advice. I think your right, I didn't find a common interest as a pretense for exchanging numbers or I could have been cocky funny although that's not necessarily my style.

    Thanks again!

    -Slater


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