Re: Did i handle this right? what should i do next? with one of my mltrs
Honestly man, I'd straight up snap on her. My opinion is that by NOT telling her that her behavior was unacceptable is being a pushover. She did all that to you and you just walked away? If it was me she'd get an ear full. Your first thought is that reacting to her is beta. You'd only be half right.
Whining about her behavior "Why would you do that? I didn't do anything to you" is beta. Telling her your standards and expectations is not. "I do not surround myself with people who act like they're still in high school. You're behavior was such a turn off and I'm not dealing with that."
If you act cool with everything then guess what, she'll keep treating you like dirt because she knows you'll be cool with it. If you walk away and freeze her out, but she knows you'll be back then it's wasteful. No effect on her if she doesn't feel like she'd lose you. My suggestion is to call her on it. No woman has ever disrespected me like that. I don't care if you're not exclusive. Even women I was casually dating didn't do that.
Well.....maybe one lol.
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