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    Default Did i handle this right? what should i do next? with one of my mltrs

    Both me n hb9 are aware that we hookup with other people, she even thinks I'm a "player" (I don't think so) but enjoy each others company and hookup on a regular basis. The other night I took her to this bar she slapped me n I took it a bit to seriously but just said she was dumb n walked away from her. Later she hooked up with 2 other guys right I front of me similing at me like a bitch to try n make me mad, but I just kept it cool and continued to have a good time, she then went upstairs n could have fucked the guy in the bathroom (she was beyond blacked out) but I could be wrong n just assuming things. Besides her slapping me do I have the right o be mad at her for this? I mean we're not exclusive. So she's texted me saying sorry, I didn't insult her in my response but I basically said dont talk to me and bring my watch to my house, it's more of an excuse to just see her. It's been 2 days since I froze her out. Is this enough "punishment" of not having my attention or anything? What would be your advice on what I should say tomorrow? Should I accept her apology? I don't wanna look like a pushover, that's not attractive. I'm some what new to keeping mltrs, I'm more of a one night stand person.

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    Default Re: Did i handle this right? what should i do next? with one of my mltrs

    Honestly man, I'd straight up snap on her. My opinion is that by NOT telling her that her behavior was unacceptable is being a pushover. She did all that to you and you just walked away? If it was me she'd get an ear full. Your first thought is that reacting to her is beta. You'd only be half right.

    Whining about her behavior "Why would you do that? I didn't do anything to you" is beta. Telling her your standards and expectations is not. "I do not surround myself with people who act like they're still in high school. You're behavior was such a turn off and I'm not dealing with that."

    If you act cool with everything then guess what, she'll keep treating you like dirt because she knows you'll be cool with it. If you walk away and freeze her out, but she knows you'll be back then it's wasteful. No effect on her if she doesn't feel like she'd lose you. My suggestion is to call her on it. No woman has ever disrespected me like that. I don't care if you're not exclusive. Even women I was casually dating didn't do that.

    Well.....maybe one lol.
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    Default Re: Did i handle this right? what should i do next? with one of my mltrs

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Honestly man, I'd straight up snap on her. My opinion is that by NOT telling her that her behavior was unacceptable is being a pushover. She did all that to you and you just walked away? If it was me she'd get an ear full. Your first thought is that reacting to her is beta. You'd only be half right.

    Whining about her behavior "Why would you do that? I didn't do anything to you" is beta. Telling her your standards and expectations is not. "I do not surround myself with people who act like they're still in high school. You're behavior was such a turn off and I'm not dealing with that."


    If you act cool with everything then guess what, she'll keep treating you like dirt because she knows you'll be cool with it. If you walk away and freeze her out, but she knows you'll be back then it's wasteful. No effect on her if she doesn't feel like she'd lose you. My suggestion is to call her on it. No woman has ever disrespected me like that. I don't care if you're not exclusive. Even women I was casually dating didn't do that.

    Well.....maybe one lol.
    Yeah really should have said more in the bar before just walking away but i did her her behavior was really low and not acceptable in the text i sent her. I haven't been with thaat many women and the fact that your saying you've never been disrespected like that has pretty much made up my mind that im going to just cut her..but well see, shes gonna be at my house in a hour, thanks for the advice.

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    Default Re: Did i handle this right? what should i do next? with one of my mltrs

    Quote Originally Posted by petro View Post
    Yeah really should have said more in the bar before just walking away but i did her her behavior was really low and not acceptable in the text i sent her. I haven't been with thaat many women and the fact that your saying you've never been disrespected like that has pretty much made up my mind that im going to just cut her..but well see, shes gonna be at my house in a hour, thanks for the advice.
    You don't have to cut her off. Use it as a learning experience. Especially if you have nothing to lose. Try out some techniques you wanted to see worked and learn from it. Like I said I think you should snap at her. Women love conflict. Why else would they watch all those reality shows and soap operas lol. Good luck.
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    Default Re: Did i handle this right? what should i do next? with one of my mltrs

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    You don't have to cut her off. Use it as a learning experience. Especially if you have nothing to lose. Try out some techniques you wanted to see worked and learn from it. Like I said I think you should snap at her. Women love conflict. Why else would they watch all those reality shows and soap operas lol. Good luck.
    Good point, this should be interesting. hahaha so true, thanks man!


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