So here is my story. For the last three months I have been trying to hookup with this co worker but I'm on the verge of giving up.
Whenever I made eye contact with her she would give me a smile and a wave. I had a flirtatious conversation with her before I left for three weeks for a holiday which I ended saying "don't miss me too much"
A work friend of mine had a chat to her about me and she said i was really cute and nice. I was over the moon when my friend told me she said that about me.
When I came back to work, it was my birthday the day before. When I saw her at work, I was waiting in line for something and she walked up to me with a big smile saying "Hey I didn't know it was your birthday yesterday, happy birthday, I feel really bad for not knowing and not wishing you"
The conversation was going well so I tried to add a flirtatious comment at the end saying "So do I get a birthday Kiss"
She says no and then i lose her smile, then we end up having a break together later and it was just awkward silence for 5 minutes.
Later next week when I saw her again we still made eye contact and she still smiled but I couldn't really get a conversation going as we were both busy working.
My question is that is this girl giving me signs shes attracted to me or she's just being polite and is the only way to hook up with this girl is if I bump in to her where she hangs out, I know a couple of clubs she goes to frequently.
I'm finding it hard to flirt to her at work and getting her number at work is the most impossible thing as I can't transition it in a conversation